Common Decency is a society’s moral standard.

What is decent is considered to be moral and what is indecent is considered to be immoral.

Morality is the standard of behaviour that a society has inherited from its religion.

Religious values are morals that are common to the body of the church. They are the standards that a church needs its followers to conform to.

Common people have always been subjected to the morals of their church in order to be seen as decent.

Morals are the boundaries that define decent people as good and righteous.

Being subjected to other people’s boundaries may be common and it may be decent but it also restricts my personal freedom.

My boundaries allow me the security of my own comfort zone but deny my freedom of choice, which denies my personal development and growth.

My growth and development announces my ‘ascension’, not my decent into the moral dramas of the common people.

My Comfort Zone defines the limit of my emotional power.

Within my comfort zone, I am comfortable and able to connect to my power.

When I am comfortable, I feel strong and I am without tolerations, problems and energy drains.

My ability to be strong and powerful defines my comfort zone.

Beyond my comfort zone, my ability falters and I become weak and uncomfortable and fearful.

I require boundaries in order to maintain my comfort zone.

The more boundaries I have, the stronger my comfort zone becomes, but the smaller becomes the space in which I am comfortable.

To extend my comfort zone, I am required to step out of my comfort zone and claim a new space in which I am comfortable.

I am required to reposition my boundaries in order to extend my comfort zone and expand and grow as a person.

As my comfort zone expands, my personal space increases and my emotional power grows.

When my boundaries become boundless and I am unconditionally ‘comfortable’ anywhere and everywhere, I have attained ‘Acceptance’ and I become free from the limitations of a reality of my own creation.

When the boundaries of my comfort zone become unlimited, my space becomes boundless and my power becomes infinite.

Inner Conflict is created when my standards and my boundaries do not match.

Unless I own my standards of behaviour, unless my standards are my own, I will experience an inner conflict created by the conflicting standards that I have been given by other people.

My standards are the behaviour that I find acceptable of myself. They are the standards of my personal behaviour.

My boundaries are the behaviour that I find acceptable of other people.

When others breach or trespass over my boundaries they come into conflict with my standards. Their standards are in conflict with mine.

My inner world is reflected in my outer world. My outer world is a direct reflection of my inner world.

Any inner conflict that I have will manifest as my reality in my physical outer world.

With clear personal standards and strongly enforced boundaries, my emotional energy is contained and manageable.

Inner Peace is the state of being without Inner Conflict

Am I a Leader, a Manager or both?

       Am I leading my own life?

       Am I managing my own life?

       Am I managing to lead my life?

       Am I leading a well managed life?

       Am I following my own authority or someone else’s?

       Am I leading others on my path?

       Am I managing others on their path?

       Am I following another on their path?

       Am I managing to follow another on their path?

       Is another managing my life for me?

       Is another leading my life for me?

       Am I living my life through another?

       Is another living their life through me?

       Am I managing to follow my path in life?

       Am I leading the life that I have chosen?

Our Soul resides in the Absolute Realm of Divinity, where nothing is either good or bad and everything is neither good nor bad.

Everything ‘Just Is’, from whatever perspective that we perceive it.

The experiences that our Soul sends to us in life are neither good nor bad, they just are, experiences that are exactly right for our chosen path of growth and expansion.

Our ego Self decides whether we want what we have or not.

Our Soul sends to its Self, unconditionally and without judgment or expectation of the outcome, that which our Soul wishes its Self to experience.

Our ego Self then discerns who it chooses to be in relationship to what it receives in life from its Soul.

Our Soul has chosen for its Self: Our parents, our nationality, our religion, our race, our creed, our culture, our class, our personality and our character. This becomes our fate without our ego having to make any choices.

Our Soul has also chosen for its Self: A Vision, Mission & Purpose for this life-time.

Our journey through life is to decide whether we actually want what we already have or whether we choose to change it.

Our Soul has chosen for its Self to have unconditional choice.

When we change our perspective of who we are and what we really want to have in our life, we stop following our fate and awaken to the Journey that is our Destiny.

Job Title:  A Very Special Person

Scope of Job:  Personal Spiritual Development & Growth

Reports to: The Inner Coach

Job Description:  To follow an individual, unique, exclusive and special Life Path

Job Specification:  A very special, exclusive, unique and individual Self

The Mission:  To actively participate in Life by exploring, experiencing and discovering the True Value of:  Connection; Awareness; Creativity; Adventure

The Purpose:  To become the Attributes and to attain the Attainments that will allow the Vision for this Life-time to be fulfilled

The Vision:  To fulfill one’s Destiny by following one’s chosen path

Training Needs:

•  Attributes to become: 

Accepting; Allowing; Approving; Acknowledging; Attesting; Affirming; Appreciating

•  Attainments to attain: 

Health; Wealth; Wisdom; Well-being; Happiness

• True Values to experience: 

Oneness with all; Equality with all, Divine Choice

• Skills to Acquire: 

The Intuitive Senses of Seeing, Feeling & Knowing

Observing, Evaluating, then Discerning is the process of growth and development through conscious personal choice.

We observe what others are doing and who others are being.

We can judge our observations to be good or bad actions by others, or we can be accepting that our observations are just that – observations.

With our observations, we can evaluate the value to our self, of what others are doing or being.

We can value the energy or the emotion of the person that is taking action and evaluate how valuable or worthy that energy is to our self.

We evaluate who others are being (their state of being) so as to discern whether their attributes (the state of being attributable to them) is of value to our self.

Personal Development & Spiritual Growth are a process of appreciating in value and self worth.

Once we have observed and evaluated who someone is being and what someone is doing, we can then discern whether their state of being and their action will add value to our Self, or depreciate who we are Being.

We observe and evaluate in order to discern whether our beliefs and our behaviour are expansive or contracting.

1. Judgement of others. This is making choices for or about others.
2. Non-judgement of others. We decide not to openly judge or blame others, after making a judgement of others. This requires false humility and is self-righteous.
3. Judgement of Self. This is deciding whether who we are is good or bad for us. This is essential for personal development and is not to be confused with self blame or criticism.
4. Non-judgement of/by Self. This is denial or procrastination. 
5. Discernment by Self. This is following the choices of our conscious ego self.
6. Acceptance of others. This is being without tolerations and without boundaries.
7. Acceptance of Self. This requires the perspective of our Soul.

Motivation is the power that we need when we are disconnected from our Divine Source of Power.

When we follow the authority of another, as the child of a parent or the employee of an employer, we will need their motivational power to achieve their objectives.

When we follow our ego’s choice or authority, we will require our ego’s motivation to achieve it.

The motivation of our ego is the will power to get our emotional needs met.

Our emotional needs are our lack of power.

The ego knows sub-consciously that getting our emotional needs met will give us the power that we need to motivate us to achieve our aims and objectives.

The irony is that the objectives of the ego are to get our emotional needs met, so that we have the power that we need (motivation) to meet the objectives of the ego.

When we follow the authority (choices) of our Soul, we are empowered and no motivation is necessary.

Personal Development is the process of reprogramming our ‘software’ or updating our ‘software’ to run better.

Spiritual Growth is the process of re-writing our own ‘operating system’.

Personal Development is working on our character and our personality to develop our Self.

Spiritual Growth is working on our True Identity to expand our Soul.

Personal Development is about being optimistic, less negative and more positive.

Spiritual Growth is about finding balance in all things.

Personal development is concerned with reducing our tolerations, challenging our limiting beliefs and getting our emotional needs met.

Spiritual Growth is about gaining more power, authority and ability to live Life on purpose and to realise our Vision for this Life-time.