I never cope with life. I choose to live life.

I either cope with the problems of life or not.

When I cope with the problems in my life, I manage to either resolve them or to tolerate them.

Becoming intolerant of the problems in my life is a sign of not coping with the problems and not coping with not having a solution to my problems.

I cope with a problem by finding a solution to the symptoms of my problem.

When I find a solution to a problem, I can cope with that problem by tolerating the symptoms.

Coping with a problem never cured the problem or made it go away. It just found a way of managing the problem or managing to cope with the problem because the potential for that problem to reoccur still remains.

When I find the cause of a problem, I find what is creating the problem and I no longer have to cope with the problem or manage it.

When I find the cause of a problem, I find a way to become problem-free, and I no longer need to cope with the problem because there is no longer a problem or a potential problem.

The cause of a problem is always my perspective.

A problem is a missed opportunity, when my perspective is misaligned.

Coping with life is a required strategy until I learn to become aware of the opportunities for my life.

When I accept all the opportunities that life has to offer, I am truly problem-free and coping is no longer required.

An Observation is a statement of my perspective of reality in the present moment.

What I observe, I see with my physical eyes or I see in my mind’s eye as the fact of my reality.

My observations are how I see the world and how the world is relating to me.

An Opportunity is a statement of my perspective of how reality can be in the future.

I cannot see an opportunity with my physical eyes. I can only see an opportunity intuitively in the imagination of my mind’s eye.

Imagination is essential to being able to see a future opportunity.

An observation is a reflection of my present reality, whereas an opportunity is a picture, a thought, a revelation or an insight of how life can be changed to become more beneficial in the future.

Observation is required to ascertain: “Where I am now”.

Opportunity is essential to ascertain: “Where I choose to be”.

Coaching may be required to ascertain: “How I will get there”.

An Effortless Life is problem-free.

Problems are the resistance to life flowing freely.

Problems are the entropy that creates friction and makes life an effort.

Solving problems is an effort and a toleration.

All problems are a toleration and require tolerance.

Tolerating life is unacceptable because it is not effortless.

Being ‘Accepting of Life’ is receiving everything that occurs in life as an opportunity.

When I see my life as an opportunity, there are no problems and I am problem-free.

Opportunities arrive effortlessly.

Problems present resistance and challenge.

Challenges carry the possibility of failure, opportunities do not.

Overcoming tolerations is the pathway to Acceptance.

Effortlessly Accepting Life is my greatest opportunity.

Guiding and Supporting are the two primary skills of a Coach.

Guiding is also a leadership skill of a Director.

When I guide someone by leading them, I am guiding them in my chosen direction.

When I guide, lead and direct someone in my direction, they become a follower or a worker. They follow my lead, my guidance and my direction.

When I lead someone by guiding their direction they will need my motivational support because they are acting under my will power.

When I support another as a Life Coach, I connect them to their own Source of Power and they become empowered with Life-force Energy.

With sufficient power, I support others to make new choices.

Once another has the power to make new choices for themself, I can guide them to realise, make real, those choices and bring them into their reality.

A Director guides another to follow his/her authority and supports them to achieve his/her aims and objectives. Followers, employees and workers require direction and motivation.

A Life Coach supports another to connect to their own emotional power, guides them to follow their own authority and enables them to lead their own Life. With Guidance & Support they become inspired and empowered.

Common Decency is a society’s moral standard.

What is decent is considered to be moral and what is indecent is considered to be immoral.

Morality is the standard of behaviour that a society has inherited from its religion.

Religious values are morals that are common to the body of the church. They are the standards that a church needs its followers to conform to.

Common people have always been subjected to the morals of their church in order to be seen as decent.

Morals are the boundaries that define decent people as good and righteous.

Being subjected to other people’s boundaries may be common and it may be decent but it also restricts my personal freedom.

My boundaries allow me the security of my own comfort zone but deny my freedom of choice, which denies my personal development and growth.

My growth and development announces my ‘ascension’, not my decent into the moral dramas of the common people.

My Comfort Zone defines the limit of my emotional power.

Within my comfort zone, I am comfortable and able to connect to my power.

When I am comfortable, I feel strong and I am without tolerations, problems and energy drains.

My ability to be strong and powerful defines my comfort zone.

Beyond my comfort zone, my ability falters and I become weak and uncomfortable and fearful.

I require boundaries in order to maintain my comfort zone.

The more boundaries I have, the stronger my comfort zone becomes, but the smaller becomes the space in which I am comfortable.

To extend my comfort zone, I am required to step out of my comfort zone and claim a new space in which I am comfortable.

I am required to reposition my boundaries in order to extend my comfort zone and expand and grow as a person.

As my comfort zone expands, my personal space increases and my emotional power grows.

When my boundaries become boundless and I am unconditionally ‘comfortable’ anywhere and everywhere, I have attained ‘Acceptance’ and I become free from the limitations of a reality of my own creation.

When the boundaries of my comfort zone become unlimited, my space becomes boundless and my power becomes infinite.

New Year Resolutions never resolve anything.

A new year resolution is a new solution to an old problem.

It is a solution for next year that is designed to solve last year’s problem.

Solutions never solve the cause of problems, they just fix the symptoms for a while.

New solutions never solve old problems, they just prove that old solutions didn’t work.

In a problem-free reality, I have no problems, I have only opportunities for growth and therefore solutions and resolutions are not necessary.

Solutions and resolutions are not required when accepting opportunities.

When I see a learning opportunity as a problem to be solved, it will always be a problem to be solved, whether I have a solution or not.

An aspirin is a solution to the problem of a headache but it will never eradicate the cause of the headache and the problem will often return.

A problem will always be a headache until I become problem-free. I will not become problem free by trying to solve or resolve problems, either this year or at the start of a new year.

This New Year I invite all opportunities to present themself for my approval.

My New Year’s Intention is to embrace all my opportunities for a problem-free and effortless Life.

The Role of the Guide is neither:

• A master nor a slave
• A teacher nor a pupil
• A parent nor a child
• A leader nor a follower
• An employer nor an employee

A Guide does not teach, train, instruct, direct, lead, protect,consult, mentor or advise.

A Guide:

• Supports others on their own path
• Hears the messages that are directions on that path
• Explains the lessons that are required to be learned
• Outlines the shifts in perspective that are necessary to make
• Reveals the resolutions to the problems that are appearing
• Clarifies the challenges that are presenting
• Highlights the opportunities that are opening up
• Connects others to the power of their own inspiration
• Keeps the client ‘present’
• Reveals the clients gifts (presents)
• Facilitates the clients presence

A Guide is the modern day Messiah that accesses the wisdom of the Oracle.

Guiding & Supporting is the role of a Coach.

I guide others to follow their own path, to connect with their own authority, and to make their own choices with confidence.

I support others with the power to step out of their comfort zone, to get their own emotional needs met, and to become the essence of who they really are that connects them to their inspiration and empowers them to feel their value and their worth.

To be a Guide, I am required to be sensitive to their situation and their condition.

To be a Supporter, I am required to be detached from the lessons that they are learning and from the shifts that they are making, so that I can hold them in their highest esteem.

To be their Guide, I am required to be consciously-aware of the path that my clients are travelling, and exclusively-connected to my own path that exists in synchronicity to their own.

To be their Supporter, I am required to empower and inspire them on their path, which requires me to understand their journey with both an emotional perception and a rational perspective.

The essence of being a guiding and supporting Coach is not what I am doing, it is the state of my being, which is sensitively-detached, exclusively-connected and emotionally-rational.

There are two distinct aspects of Life Coaching:

Physical Life Coaching has the goal of achieving the wants and desires of my ego, which are:

• To get what ever I need emotionally
• To have whatever I need materially
• To achieve whatever I believe that I need to achieve
• To learn knowledge to attain status
• To attain status to earn money
• To earn money to gain power

Spiritual Life Coaching has the intention of attaining the Passions of my Soul, which are:

• To live my vision, mission & purpose
• To do what I truly value
• To attain Happiness, Well-being & Expansiveness
• To attest to my Power, affirm my Authority & acknowledge my Ability
• To be Healthy, Wealthy & Wise; Content, Fulfilled & Joyful
• To have Presence, Clarity & Direction
• To allow what I have, approve of who I am being and accept whatever turns up in my life