Being Happy with my Partner requires both myself and my partner to be happy.

I can only be happy with my partner when I am happy myself.

I can only be happy myself when I take responsibility for my own happiness.

I am not responsible for my partner’s happiness, my partner is.

When I am being unhappy with my partner, I am really being unhappy with myself.

When I am unhappy with my partner, I am blaming them for my unhappiness instead of seeing in them the reflection of my own unhappiness.

When I am unhappy, it is the purpose of my partner to reflect that state of being to me.

I am always happy to see my partner being happy.

When my partner is happy, I can be happy with my partner.

We can share our happiness together.

Happiness is the natural state of Being for us both.

We just have to learn to experience it together as Happy Partners.

When I share my life with another, it is a joy.

When I share my life with another, it is an expression of how fulfilled my life is.

Unless I am content with my life, I would not choose to share it with another.

Why would I choose to share my displeasure, my unfulfilment or my discontent with someone else.

When I share my partner’s life with them, I cannot be happy.

Sharing someone else’s life is never fulfilling.

I am never content with someone else’s life, only my own.

My partner’s life may be a joy for them, but it can never be a joy for me, and my lack of joy will deplete their fulfilment and their contentment.

When my partner shares their life with me and I share my life with my partner, we have a sharing relationship together that is expansive.

We are each free to follow our own paths and free to support each other on our own path, and free to accept the opportunities that life presents to us seperately and together.

Contentment is having everything that we want.

Contentment is having enough.

Contentment is being satisfied with what we have.

Contentment is being without nothing and having no aspect of scarcity or lack.

Scarcity or lack creates wanting, waiting and discontentment.

When we are ‘counting the days’, we are deciding how long we will have to wait before we are satified and content.

Discontent and waiting take us out of the present moment to a future time in which we will be content and we will receive that which we believe that do not already have.

Contentment can only exist in each present moment.

In each present moment of now, we are either content, waiting to be content or wanting to be content.

When we know what we want and we have what we want, we have contentment.

We will never be content until we know what it is that we really want and we know that we have enough of it.

Being “Happy for You” means that I accept the choices you make because they allow you to be happy.

We cannot share our happiness when we are tolerating the choices that another person makes.

Tolerations deplete our energy and therefore inhibit our ability to be Happy.

Our happiness is our responsibility and we are not responsible for any one else’s happiness.

When someone is happy, we can share our happiness with them, and be happy for them.

I do not depend on another to make me happy.

No one can be happy for me unless I am happy myself.

I do not choose for another to be dependent on me for their happiness.

Once I have learned to be the master of my own happiness, I am able to share my happiness with the happiness of another.

Two happy people sharing their happiness have happiness for each other.

Sharing our happiness with a sad person will eventually make us both unhappy.

We cannot share another’s happiness without also sharing our own sadness.

We can only share each other’s happiness once we are both happy and we both have happiness to share.