"The Inner Coach"

We need to be appreciated when we do not value our own self-worth. When our self-worth is depreciated, we may need appreciation from others. The need to achieve is often driven by the need to be appreciated. When others appreciate what we do and achieve, we learn to do things for the appreciation that we [...]

Our need for approval will attach us to the authority of another because they give us their power in exchange for our obedience to their authority. When we follow the path of another, we will eventually disapprove of their authority as a reflection of their disapproval when we do not do as they expect. Disapproval [...]

The need to be right is created by our fear that we can be wrong. Fear is an acronym for ‘false evidence appearing real’. The appearance of what is false or wrong will create the need to be right. In this relative world of dual reality, right and wrong exist as opposing perspectives of the [...]

“I love you” means I need you. “I care for you” also means I need you. When I ‘care for you’, I create a dependency of the ‘jealous controller’ that is too attached and insensitive to the other and needs to be cared for. When I ‘care about you’, I create an independent detachment that is [...]

Our Soul needs our Self. Our Soul is our Spiritual Entity that requires a Self to Be its physical Identity. Without the Spiritual Entity our Self is just a material Id. The material Id is born into physicality and becomes conscious of its Self. The awareness of the conscious self is called the ego. The [...]