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Space is a metaphor for emotional energy. The source of my emotional energy is the ‘gap’ in Space. Energy exists in the gap or space between matter. In the gap, I am divinely connected to my emotional energy and I have no need for space, because I have all the space I need. Disconnected from [...]

The Need for Order

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The Need for Order is created by the belief that chaos exists. Chaos Theory substantiates the belief that chaos is real. Order & chaos are a duality of relative existence. In the midst of chaos, I will need order. The order I choose is determined by my Self. The chaos that I experience is created [...]

The Need To Win

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My Need to Win will drive me to compete. The greater my need to win, the greater my desire to compete. The most extreme form of competition is war. War is fought between competing nations or religions because the leaders have a need to win and a need for superiority. The need to win is [...]

The Need to be Involved is the Need to be Included. It is the need to be not excluded. It is created by the fear of being rejected, being excluded, being unwanted and being alone. It is based on a belief that we are all individuals that need each other for our own survival. It [...]

The Need for Respect manifests when others do not see me as I wish to be seen. When others do not see me as I wish to be seen, they do not show me the respect that I need from them. My need for respect is created by the image that I portray to other [...]

The Need to be Allowed manifests as the need to get my own way. The need to get my own way is created by my belief that I do not have my own way and I am not getting my own way. The need to get my own way becomes excessive when I believe that [...]

My Need to Know is created by my disconnection from my All-Knowingness. In my omniscient all-knowingness, I have no need to know because I am all-knowing. My need to know is driven by my need to feel safe & secure. I believe that I am safe & secure when I know why everything is occurring. [...]

Deep down, I intuitively know that I am perfect. On the surface, I experience with my physical senses all the imperfection of life. In my created reality, I disapprove of all the imperfection because I know that it is not really me. The experience of my created reality re-inforces my disapproval of my Self. My [...]

The Need to be Safe & Secure is created by the belief that I am at risk and in danger. Believing that I am at risk and in danger depletes my emotional energy reserves. The sub-conscious manager of my emotional energy reserves needs me to be safe & secure to stop the drain of emotional [...]

Needs & Values

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A Value is the measure of the positivity of an emotional experience. The more positive the emotion, the more value is experienced. A Need is the absence of a positive experience. Needing something, whether it is physical or emotional, is a negative experience. Needs & Values are a paradox. When I have what I need, I value [...]