A Standard is a level of behaviour that has been achieved and is regularly expressed.

An Attainment is a level of Being that has been attained and can be consciously chosen.

I act or react according to my standards of behaviour. My standards are the level of behaviour that I find acceptable.

Who I am being whilst I am doing what I am doing is determined by my level of attainment.

The emotional state of being that I have attained will determine my power to choose how or what I do and the standard to which I do it.

The higher my level of attainment, the more power I have to consciously choose what I want to occur and how I choose to respond to that which is occurring.

My standards are a ‘have to’. They are the standard to which I believe that I have to aspire.

With the attainment of sufficient power, I have the ability to choose my actions and my responses in each and every moment. I no longer have to conform to any standard.

The Test of my Emotional Intelligence is the degree to which I can be Happy and Well as a result of my conscious choice to be so.

It is my emotional ignorance that is depriving me of the happiness and well-being that is my true nature.

Happiness is an emotional feeling.

How can a rational person be happy in an emotional state of being disconnected and unemotional?

Well-being is an emotional feeling.

How can I feel well in a society that medicates physical and mental illness without one iota of emotional intelligence?

It is my lack of emotional intelligence that disconnects me from my true emotional nature.

A logical world has become an unemotional world devoid of happiness & well-being and full of sadness & sickness. This society has lost its connection to its true wealth and its true health and happiness.

In an emotionally intelligent world, the only irrational behaviour is to be unemotional and interllectually challenged to the point of having to disconnect from one’s own emotional experiences.

Being unemotional is being emotionally unintelligent.

Containing one’s emotions means not expressing one’s emotions, which is suppressing them and choosing to disconnect from them.

Expressing who I really am requires the emotional intelligence of knowing who I really am.

Knowing who I really am is the true Test of Emotional Intelligence.

My Emotional Intelligence requires more than the ability to manage my irrational behaviour.

It requires the ability to understand my emotional experiences rationally and intelligently.

The cause of irrational behaviour is the lack of  intelligence.

I react irrationally with what is seen as an emotional reaction.

I am able to consciously respond with positive emotion once I attain the intelligence and understanding to do so.

My irrational behaviour is a symptom of  my lack of rational intelligence.

The cause of my irrational behaviour is my lack of emotional intelligence.

Extreme irrational behaviour is diagnosed as mental illness by a rational person who is without emotional intelligence.

In the absence of emotional intelligence, life has become an unemotional experience for rationally intelligent people and life has become an irrational experience for emotionally unintelligent people. (Both the mental patient and the psychiatrist are reflecting to each other their absence of emotional intelligence even though one has a rational perspective and the other an irrational perspective).

In a dualistic world, the more rationally intelligent I become the more emotionally unintelligent I am and the more irrational I appear to be, the more emotionally unintelligent I appear to be.

Life is an Emotional Experience once I become emotionally intelligent enough to allow it to be.

Emotion is the energetic state of being that I am experiencing.

All energy has a force, a magnitude and a potential.

The potential of energy is realised when the force and magnitude unite.

E.g. The potential of electrical energy is measured in ‘watts’, which is the product of its force of ‘volts’ and its magnitude of ‘amps’.

My emotional energy is more complicated because the force of my emotions is divided by polarity and the magnitude is divided by gender.

The polarity of my emotional energy is either positive or negative depending on the direction of my thoughts. The gender of my emotional energy is either male or female depending on the clarity of my beliefs.

The potential of my emotional energy is depreciated relative to the polarity of its force and the magnitude of its gender. This determines its intensity.

My Emotional Intelligence is measured not only by my awareness of my emotional state of being but also by my awareness of its potential for my Life.

Understanding the Potential of my Emotional Energy requires me to be consciously-aware of:

• Its force and magnitude
• Its gender, polarity & intensity
• Its definition or ‘adjectivity’
• The sponsoring beliefs that are creating the emotion

The Ultimate Potential of my Emotional Energy is the Pure Omnipotent Feeling of Love.

Emotional States of Being require definition before I can understand them intelligently.

When I define an emotional state of being, I give it definition, it becomes a definite emotion and I can become consciously-aware of its existence.

It is my conscious-awareness of the definite nature of my emotions that allows me to be emotionally intelligent.

An emotional person is aware of their feelings.

An emotionally intelligent person is able to consciously name their emotional state of being and create it at will.

By intelligently defining an emotion, I am both emotionally aware of the feeling and rationally conscious of its definition.

I define an emotion (emotional state of being) with an adjective, which is a describing word.

An adjective that describes my feeling or my emotional state of being is an emotion.

Without an adjective (word) to describe it, an emotion is just a feeling that I don’t really understand.

Emotional Intelligence is the degree to which I can feel and be aware of my own emotional states of being.

Being Emotional means I am aware of my emotional state of being.

Having Intelligence means I have a rational knowledge and understanding of a situation, occurrence or circumstance that I am currently experiencing.

I am intelligent when I can rationalise what is happening in my reality.

I am emotional when I can feel the awareness of my emotional state of being.

Emotional Intelligence becomes confusing when I define emotional as being irrational.

Emotional Intelligence is not the study and comprehension of negative emotional states of being that cause me to react.

Being emotional is not reacting emotionally, it is being aware of my emotional state of being so that I can respond in a rational way (intelligently).

Reacting in what is considered a negative emotional state of being is called being irrational.

Being irrational is the result of an absence of both rational and emotional intelligence.

Understanding irrational behaviour does require emotional intelligence but it is not the definition of emotional intelligence.

Trying to rationally understand irrational behaviour will never make me emotionally intelligent, just more rationally intelligent.

A rational study of emotional intelligence is by definition promoting rational intelligence not emotional intelligence.

Emotional Intelligence requires that I am being both emotional and rational in the comprehension of what I am experiencing.

Comprehending other peoples’ emotional states of being requires sensitivity and a degree of Sensitive Intelligence.

Charisma is my personal power of Attraction.

My power of attraction is relative to my emotional state of being.

My emotional state of being determines my personal charm.

My personal charm is the aura that I emanate.

The quality of my aura is determined by the intensity of my emotional energy.

The intensity of my emotion is determined by the gender and polarity of my energy.

When the gender of my energy is re-united, I transmit a pure wavelength of attractive energy.

When the polarity of my energy is harmonised, I transmit a pure frequency of magnetic energy.

When my gender is united and my polarity is harmonised, the intensity of my energy is in balance.

Charisma is the influence that I have on other people emotionally and energetically.

Charisma is the beneficial effect that I have on other people spiritually.

Charisma is the gift of grace and favour that I extend to others when I am connected to my Divine Source of Power & Authority.

I am ‘At One’ with my True Soure of Power when I am empowered by my Soul.

My Soul empowers my Self when I am in alignment with my Soul’s Path.

My Soul does not empower my ego to do its own bidding.

When my ego is misaligned and not empowered by my Soul, it will need will power to achieve my wants and desires.

I am At One with my Power when the gender of my emotional energy is united and whole.

When I am At One with my Power, my temperament is even and balanced.

When I am disconnected and in need of emotional power, I am at odds with my emotions and my temper is bad.

At one with my Power, my temper is good, my temperament is well, and I am in a good mood.

At one with my Power, I am independently empowered and my emotional needs have all been met.

Pleasure is the positive emotional feeling of getting my emotional needs met.

Pleasant people please me with the pleasure they give to me when they meet one of my emotional needs.

When I meet someone else’s emotional need, I have the pleasure of pleasing them because pleasing others pleases me.

Pleasure has a duality of pain, which is unpleasant and unpleasurable.

Whether an action or experience is painful or pleasurable is a personal perception based on an individuals beliefs.

“One Man’s pain is another Man’s pleasure”.

Joy is the pure emotional feeling of being connected to my own Source of Power.

Joy is the feeling of being connected to my Soul.

Joy is the pure positive emotion of being aligned with my True Self.

It is always a Joy to be the Beingness of my Soul.

I experience Joy through the act of doing what I Truly Value as this allows me to express the true value and worth of who I really am.

Joy is pure emotion that is without  duality.

Joy is the expression of my True Power.

Being Passively Assertive is communicating my choice to another, as my choice. I am asserting my choice in a passive way that is both non-active and non-aggressive.

When I am being passively assertive, I am gently explaining my choice to someone else with a confident and clear demeanour that is without aggression.

Being passively aggressive is resisting someone else’s choice for me in a hostile way.

Being aggressively assertive is forcing my choice or my opinions and beliefs  on to someone else in a hostile and threatening way.

Being actively assertive is physically doing what I have chosen as my choice, which may or may not be carried out with sensitivity to others. Without sensitivity to others my assertiveness may be perceived as active aggression instead.

Passively Asserting my beliefs and my choices is not imposing them on other people. It is simply asserting them as my choice.

Imposing my choices on others may or may not require me to be aggressive depending on whether others are tolerant or intolerant of my demands.

Imposing my choices on others is always an imposition.

Asserting my authority to choose is always my prerogative.