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External Pain

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There are two types of pain: Internal & External. External pain is the result of wrong action. Any action that causes pain is not right for me. External pain is a message, a signal and a direction. Hearing the message, seeing the signal or knowing the direction; instantly releases the pain. External pain is the [...]

Personal Freedom

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Personal Freedom is being free of my Self. It is being free of the boundaries that I have created my Self. It is overcoming the victimhood that I currently experience in my life. I am a victim of: My Pain My Fears My Problems These all determine the personal boundaries that I have in place [...]

Irresistible Flow

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Irresistible Flow has no resistance. Flowing without resistance is irresistible. The nature of the Universe is effortless flow. Limiting beliefs cause resistance and limit flow. Negative thinking resists the flow of Life. Fears and false beliefs act like boulders in the river of life. They cause eddies, whirlpools and rapids in a stream that flows [...]

A toleration is a problem. When I have a solution to a problem, I can tolerate the problem. When I cannot find a solution to a problem it is intolerable. A problem is an opportunity that has been missed. When I cannot see the opportunity in life, it presents as a problem. I do not tolerate opportunities, [...]

Solving other people’s problems is neither beneficial for them nor beneficial for myself in the long term. Solving other people’s problems: Disempowers them Focuses on their problems Pulls you into the drama Intensifies the problem Always results in their problem returning Never satisfies them Takes our mind away from our own problems Takes us out [...]

I never cope with life. I choose to live life. I either cope with the problems of life or not. When I cope with the problems in my life, I manage to either resolve them or to tolerate them. Becoming intolerant of the problems in my life is a sign of not coping with the [...]

An Effortless Life requires: Spiritual Intelligence to hear our messages and to see our opportunities. Emotional Intelligence to learn our lessons and to accept our challenges. Rational Intelligence to solve our problems and to find solutions. Unemotional Intelligence will keep us in a Scientific material world that creates order out of chaos. Irrational Intelligence will [...]

Order & Chaos

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We create order in our life to avoid our problems becoming chaotic. We believe that an orderly life is problem free because a chaotic life is full of problems. Chaos is an accumulation of too many unresolved problems. Order does not solve problems, it systemises them. When our life follows the same order, we create the same [...]