Positive Criticism

Aug 17 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Positive Criticism is an oxymoron.

Criticism is always negative.

A positive appraisal is called praise.

When a critique looks for improvement, it is focusing on the negative aspects that are potential areas of positive improvement.

A positive critique is called a review.

A positive review expresses praise and encouragement.

A negative review is full of criticism.

Criticism is negative because it is a toleration.

Criticism is never acceptable.

Acceptable feedback is never seen as criticism.

Whether feedback is seen as negative criticism or positive encouragement is determined by the perspective of the receiver, not the giver.

No matter how much I believe my criticism to be positive, it is the belief of the receiver of my criticism that determines its polarity.

Criticism motivates with fear. It is not empowered.

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Option & Choice

Aug 16 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

When an option is a choice, there is no distinction.

One option is not a choice.

Two options are required to have one choice.

With only one option, I have no choice. There is nothing to choose between.

Having only one option is a deception and a false reality.

There is always more than one option.

We always have choice.

We live in a world of contrast, choice, options and infinite possibilities.

When I believe that I have no choice, I am deceiving myself and denying or ignoring my other options.

Two options are a dilemma, which means I will have difficulty choosing between the two.

With 3 options, I am ‘at choice’.

I can only be at choice once I have clearly identified three distinct options.

With 3 options, my choice is clear and has distinction.

With multiple options, I will be confused.

When I reduce my options down to three, I can then choose with clarity.

My best choice is always my 3rd option.

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Victims, Villains & Heroes

Aug 10 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

All Heroes are potential Villains.

All Villains are potential Victims.

Villains become the victim of the heroes heroic action.

Heroes become the villain of the villain’s victimhood.

Heroes, villains & victims are all roles played out in the drama of conflict, intimidation and revenge.

In the control drama of the ‘intimidator & the poor me’, there is always a villain, the intimidator, and a poor me, the victim.

The hero rescues the victim from their assailant by intimidating the villain and making them a victim of the heroes heroic action.

Victims, Villains and Heroes are all potential heroes, villains or victims because they all share the same energy vibration.

Whether I am being the victim, victimising a victim or saving a victim from being victimised, I am participating in the same drama of victimhood.

A True Hero is one who overcomes their own Victimhood.

My True Hero is my Saviour – My Soul.

I am never a victim of my Soul and my Soul is never a victim of anything.

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Inconsideration

Aug 09 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Inconsiderate is the term that I give to another whom I believe has not considered my situation and acted accordingly.

I believe that their inconsideration is due to their lack of consideration.

Consideration and inconsideration are a personal perspective and a duality.

It is not possible to consider life from the perspective of another.

I may see another’s perspective or point of view when they explain it to me, but it is impossible to go through life considering what reality another chooses for themself.

All that I can consider doing is to presume that all others share my reality, which they do not.

Consideration for others is totally flawed and will often be seen as its duality of Inconsideration.

The paradox is that the more considerate I become of others, the more inconsiderate they will judge me to be.

In consideration of this reality, I choose to be neither considerate nor inconsiderate.

I choose to be faithful to whatever I consider to be my Path.

Being inconsiderate is seen by others as being selfish.

Being considerate is believed by others to be unselfish.

I choose to be Truly Selfish and become my True Self – my Soul.

 

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Dharma & Karma

Aug 01 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

In a dual reality world, Dharma & Karma are seen as opposing realities of fate or fortune.

Dharma is seen as good fortune and the effect of good or right action.

Karma is seen as bad fortune and the effect of bad or wrong action.

From a positive perspective, Karma is seen as an opportunity to put right a past wrong, rather than as a punishment for a wrong-doing.

With no clear distinction between fate and destiny, it is assumed that the path in life is to overcome Karma in order to experience Dharma.

It is my fate to live in a dual reality world where fortune & misfortune, right & wrong, good & bad, karma & dharma are all opposing realities.

It is my Destiny to overcome these dual realities and overcome my fate & fortune by choosing to live in alignment with my True Authority.

I choose to overcome the good fortune of my dharma & fate that has an opposing energy of misfortune and doom.

I choose to overcome the problems of my karma & fate and see the opportunities that await me as my destiny.

My Karma is the Dharma of my Destiny, once I have overcome the distinction.

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Grace & Disgrace

Jul 30 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Grace & Disgrace are a dual reality and a contrasting choice.

From my perspective, something or someone either raises my emotional energy or depletes it.

What raises my energy has grace.

Whatever depletes my energy is a disgrace.

What blesses my life has grace.

What curses my life is a disgrace.

What I see as good for me has grace.

What I see as bad for me is a disgrace.

What I see as a positive benefit has grace.

What I see as a negative detriment is a disgrace.

What I experience as graceful, I like.

What I experience as disgraceful, I dislike.

My True Power is not derived from people or things.

My True Power has neither grace nor disgrace, it is Divine Grace.

Divine Grace just is. It has not duality.

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Sloth & Laziness

Jul 21 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Sloth is being offtrack.

It is being stuck in the density and the resistance of physical life.

Sloth is the ‘goo’ of entropy and the friction of resistance that slows life down to a crawl.

When being slothful, I am disconnected from the free flowing energy of Life.

Sloth is the consequence of a depleted life-force energy that has lost its will to continue.

Sloth is not laziness it is resignation.

In a slothful state of being, I need to be re-assigned.

Laziness is the opposite of hard work.

I work hard for other people.

Lazy is what other people call me when I am not doing what they want quickly enough.

I work for other people diligently.

I follow my own path effortlessly.

Working for others is never effortless.

Following my own path is never hard work and I am never lazy.

Effortlessly doing what I truly value with vision and with purpose requires me to overcome the duality of sloth and diligence, laziness and hard-work, and re-align myself with my true path and my true authority.

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Perfection & Excellence

Jul 20 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Perfection is being good enough. When I am good enough, life will be perfect.

It is the balance, the midpoint between being too good and not being good enough.

Excellence is the best that I can be.

It is the measure of my best achievement.

Excellence is the height of my achievement.

Perfection is the magnitude of my attainment.

Perfection is how Good I have become.

Excellence is a journey of becoming good, then better until I am the best that I can be.

Perfection is a journey of discovering Goodness or Godness by experiencing what is not good enough in comparison to what is too good or more than good enough.

Perfection is attained when I become Good enough or I have attained Goodness.

Excellence must be maintained in order to be achieved and must be consistently achieved in order to be maintained.

Excellence is never good enough, as the best that I can be can always be bettered.

There is nothing better than the perfection of Goodness.

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Parent & Guardian

Jul 19 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

The Role of the Parent & Guardian is to foster the growth of an infant through childhood and adolescence to adulthood.

The Purpose of a parent & Guardian is to provide guidance and support during that process, called ‘growing up’.

Growing up means learning to live in the physical world  independently of other people by being able to make personal choices.

Guardians and parents set boundaries that are the standards of behaviour deemed suitable for the child, and meet their physical and emotional needs, in order for them to be safe, secure, comfortable and motivated in their life.

A Parent is distinct from being just a Guardian when they are emotionally attached to their child.

When the parent needs the child as much as the child needs the parent, a very strong emotional attachment is formed.

A True Guardian, as distinct from a foster parent, is sensitively detached in their role of guardianship.

When sensitive to my children’s needs in a detached way, I allow them to follow their own path and grow and mature to independence naturely under their own power, authority and ability.

“Blood is only thicker than water when it stops flowing”.

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Rationalising & Emoting

Jul 18 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Rationalising is a left brain process of analysis and thinking.

Emoting is a right brain process of expression and feeling.

Rationalising my emotions is an activity of my brain to understand my feelings.

Emoting my rationale is an activity of my solar plexus to express my reasoning.

When explaining my emotions to a rational person, I am rationalising emotions.

When expressing my feelings to an emotional person, I am emoting my rationale.

When explaining my emotions to an emotional person, I appear to be unemotional.

When expressing my feelings to a rational person, I appear to be irrational.

When I unite my right brain and my left brain with my solar plexus, I become both emotionally rational, able to rationalise my emotions, and rationally emotional, able to emote my rational.

This is a Prime Attainment of a Divine Human Being.

Balancing my mind and my emotions in a physical body unites the triality of body, mind and emotions, which allows the essence of my life to be divine.

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