Abeyance is a gaping hole or a wide open space. A window in time.

It is an opportunity that is expected, waiting to happen or to be accepted.

A gap in space is an opportunity to grow and expand into that gap and that space.

The universe does not abhor a vacuum, it relishes an expansive opportunity.

Without a gap, or an opening , or a window in time, there is no opportunity for the expansion and growth of my reality.

Obedience means following the authority of someone else.

I give obedience to those whom I trust to make my decisions.

It is making the choice that someone in authority would make.

It is doing what I am told and obeying the master to whom I am a servant or slave.

It is confining myself within the boundaries set by other people.

Obeyance means being true to my Inner Self.

It is following the direction of my Soul and True Self.

It is obeying the direction, authority and the messages that guide and support me on my spiritual path.

Obeyance requires Faith not trust.

My obedience to another disconnects my provision.

My provision is in Abeyance awaiting my Obeyance and my Faith.

When I connect with faith and obeyance, I allow my provision to appear.

There are 3 Ways of Competing:

• Competing for
• Competing against
• Competing with

I compete for myself against another.

I compete for my team against another team.

Competing for and against is a duality.

The duality of competing for and against creates winners and losers.

When I compete with my Self, I improve, I grow, I develop, I become better, and I win.

I always win and I never lose.

When I compete with another, we both improve, we both grow, we both develop, we both get better, we both win and neither of us loses.

I compete for myself against another when I have a need to win.

When I compete against myself, I always lose.

When I compete for my ego against my Soul, I always lose.

I compete with my self when I truly value my own development and growth.

My Soul always competes with my Self, never for or against my Self.

My Soul always competes with others, never for or against others.

When I am not competing, I am just a spectator of life, I am not  participating.

I can choose to compete in life, I can choose not to compete in life and I can choose how I compete in life.

There are always 3 choices in life and always 3 ways of competing in life.

There is no room for arrogance in sport.

Arrogance will take me on a journey that I am unable to complete, and give me goals that I am unable to achieve.

Arrogance is a belief in my own superior ability.

It is my arrogance that makes others feel inferior to me.

Arrogant competitors are motivated by a need to win.

Arrogance abhors losing.

Arrogance breeds the greed of needing to prove one’s superiority over others.

Arrogance needs to justify the personal belief that I am better than other people.

Arrogance ultimately lacks ability because it is without true power and authority.

The false belief in my ability disconnects me from my true power.

The false belief in my power disconnects me from my true authority.

Arrogance always promotes bad losers.

Humbleness always promotes good losers.

Confidence always allows Great Winners.

An Observation is a statement of my perspective of reality in the present moment.

What I observe, I see with my physical eyes or I see in my mind’s eye as the fact of my reality.

My observations are how I see the world and how the world is relating to me.

An Opportunity is a statement of my perspective of how reality can be in the future.

I cannot see an opportunity with my physical eyes. I can only see an opportunity intuitively in the imagination of my mind’s eye.

Imagination is essential to being able to see a future opportunity.

An observation is a reflection of my present reality, whereas an opportunity is a picture, a thought, a revelation or an insight of how life can be changed to become more beneficial in the future.

Observation is required to ascertain: “Where I am now”.

Opportunity is essential to ascertain: “Where I choose to be”.

Coaching may be required to ascertain: “How I will get there”.

A Proposal is a statement of what I choose to do or make happen in my future.

A proposal is my business and my concern and is in line with what I have the power and the authority to accomplish.

It is a statement of intent to other people of what I choose to occur and the reality that I choose to create for my Self.

A Recommendation is a statement of what I believe will be beneficial for other people to do or make happen in their future.

A recommendation is a piece of advice to someone else that offers the good of one’s own intention but carries no power or authority.

It is a statement of: “This is how I would do things given this situation and these circumstances”.

An Observation of what is, is neither a proposal nor a recommendation. It is just an observation.

A proposal and a recommendation concern an activity in the future, whereas an observation concerns an activity in the present moment.

My Soul makes no proposals or recommendations, only observations in each and every present moment.

Feeling & Choice are the two ‘Abilities’ of a relative duality world.

They are the Prime Duality of Life.

Feeling is my ability to process emotion.

Emotion is the wavelength of my Consciousness.

Choice is my ability to process thought.

Thought is the frequency of my Consciousness.

Feeling is emotional and choice is mental.

I am a mental and an emotional Being in physical form. This is my Spiritual Reality.

My feelings are centred in my Heart.

My choice is centred in my Mind.

The Heart of my Mind and the mind at my heart is my Soul.

My Soul knows no duality without the experience of my Self.

My feelings determine my Power.

My choice determines my Authority.

Authority + Power = Ability. The ability to feel and to choose.

This is the formula for overcoming a Dual Reality Life.

Feel the choice and choose with feeling.

Devoted means following the authority of another.

I am devoted to the one who gives me confidence and direction.

My Devotion to the authority and path of my Soul will empower me.

My devotion to the path of another will disempower me and I will need their power to motivate me.

Self-devotion is following the will of my ego self, which is vanity and will be in vain.

Being devoted to another is not a good strategy.

Beloved means connected to my emotional power.

I am beloved by the one who values me with clarity.

I am beloved by my Soul.

My Soul is my connection to my emotional power.

When I am beloved with another who is also beloved, we are both connected to the emotional power of our Souls.

Two beloved empowered Souls share their love with a compassion that expands and grows exponentially.

Two devoted followers need their leader to motivate them as their emotional power is divided between them and is diluted in a contractive way.

Reverence is a posh name for pleasing.

Reverence is idol worship.

It is a deep respect for someone whose position we hold in awe and honour.

I am pleasing someone’s greed and desire to be seen as superior when I humble myself to the position and the status of another.

Worshipping or idolising someone’s status is envy.

When I respect or revere a person’s position, I am envying their knowledge, status or power that is conveyed through their character or their personality.

Reverence acknowledges and respects the esteem of another. When that self-esteem is founded on status and position in society, it is false.

I Truly Respect and hold in high esteem the attributes and attainments of another when expressing their true identity.

It is only possible to have a deep and profound understanding of the attributes that another has attained once one has attained those attributes oneself.

Sharing those deep and profound attainments with another is the act of True Compassion and is truly Reverent.

We all have an equal potential to experience true compassion and attain the state of being Reverent.

Being Reverent is the state of sharing the attainments of another at the level of one’s Soul.

Every Emotion has a Wavelength.

The wavelength and the frequency of my Consciousness is always the same yet always different.

The Wavelength of my Emotion is relative to the Frequency of my Thought.

Whether a thought is positive or negative is a matter of my perspective.

Whether an emotion is male or female is a matter of my perception.

Every wavelength of emotion has both a male and a female aspect dependent on the attitude of the experiencer.

The frequency of my thoughts determines what I think about a particular experience.

The wavelength of my emotion determines how I feel about an experience.

New thoughts create new realities; new realities create new situations; new situations create new experiences; new experiences create new emotions.

When a new frequency of thought combines with a new wavelength of emotion my vibration expands, my reality expands and my creative ability expands.

The frequency of my thought and the wavelength of my emotion combined, determine the vibration of my Beingness.

The Vibration that I am Being determines the Reality that I See.

Outer Space is the space between star sytems and galaxies.

Inner Space is the space between molecular systems and atoms.

Space in physical terms is the distance between physical objects.

Outer space is more abundant between galaxies than between the stars in a galaxy.

Inner space is more abundant within an atom than between the atoms in a molecule.

Space in spiritual terms is ‘Energy’. It is the Energy that is the power of Consciousness.

The more space that I have the more conscious I am and the more emotional power that I have to convey my thoughts.

The more outer space that there is, the less dense is the environment.

The more inner space that I have, the less dense is my perception of life.

The only thing that divides inner and outer space is my perspective of life.