"The Inner Coach"

Life Coaching for Personal Development & Spiritual Growth

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The Personal Development of the Client is the goal of every Coach. The type of personal development is determined by the type of Coach. A Corporate Coach develops an individual client within their work environment, to improve knowledge, skills, talent, profitability, work potential, & human capital, to achieve the ability to lead & manage people. A Life Coach develops [...]

A Closed Question endorses a state of dual reality as it prompts a yes or no answer. Yes or no is a statement of a personal perspective that either agrees of disagrees with a question. Whether my view is positive or negative determines my yes or no answer, when I believe that something is either good [...]

Best, Better, Good

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The current teaching paradigm is to take good students and make them better educated, until they become the best that they can be. This process of educational development and training follows a path of being good, better & best. Teachers are realising that when you try to make a bad student better, they just get worse, [...]

A Statement of Intent is an affirmation of change. I do not need to state my intention to do what I am already experiencing. My current experience determines my current state of being. Developing & growing requires changing my current state for the better. It is a statement that I intend to be and become better. [...]

Directive Management is a style of Management that tells workers what to do, when to do it, how to do it, where to do it, why to do it and how to do it. To operate well, it requires Standard Operating Procedures to be in force. Consultative Leadership is a style of Management that consults [...]

Managed or Employed

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I am Managed by a Directive Manager. A Directive Manager uses me to carry out the tasks that are required to meet the manager’s objectives. When I manage to carry out the tasks to the satisfaction & agreement of the one who is directing me, I am deemed to be useful and a good worker. I am [...]

Benevolent C0-operation is the essence of good team-work. Co-operation is the state of working together as a team. Benevolent is the state of being that I am experiencing when doing it well. Benevolence is positive power, often confused with charity. I give charity from an ego that is judged to be good. I co-operate with [...]

Coaching the Client is the only way to coach. The Coachee is always the client. They cannot be a Third Party that is nominated by the client. Coaching someone else is never a solution to my problem. Problem-solving is a management skill, not a Coaching Skill. When the Coach is drawn into problem-solving, they are [...]

Third Party Coaching doesn’t work. Coaching is a partnership between two people, not three. A Coach guides and supports a client to overcome their own problems, not someone else’s. When the client has an issue involving a third party, the issue is the client’s, not the problem of the third party. The issue that the client has [...]

Directive Coaching is an oxymoron. Coaching is never directive. Managers and Directors set direction. Coaches guide and support the client to clarify and strategise their own direction. The direction that a Coach follows is always the direction of the development of the client. Coaching is Developmental. Mentoring is never directive, although it may be instructive, [...]