I am attached to what I need emotionally.

I become very attached to someone who meets my emotional needs.

When I am aware of the emotional energy that I need from another person, I am sensitively-attached to that person and in my female negative energy.

When I am unaware of the emotional energy that I am receiving from another person, I am insensitively-attached to that person and in my male negative energy.

Being emotionally attached is a dependency. I depend on those to whom I am attached for my emotional energy.

Where there is a mutual attachment of two people meeting each others needs emotionally, a co-dependent relationship is created.

Personal development involves a process of becoming un-attached (Detached) yet still aware of other people’s energy (Sensitive).

When I become sensitively-detached from all others, I sever my dependency and become emotionally Independent.

In a state of being sensitively-detached and emotionally independent, I am free to exclusively connect to my True Source of Emotional Power.

Impatience is a mild form of anger.

I get impatient and angry when I run out of emotional energy.

I need emotional energy to be patient because waiting is a toleration and a have to.

With enough emotional energy, I can be patient.

As my emotional energy runs out, I will become impatient.

When I run out of emotional energy, I will react angrily to get it back.

Patience & impatience are a duality, that is, they are opposing expressions of the same energy.

Anger is a well known emotion because it is often accompanied by an intense physical reaction.

Patience & impatience are emotions or emotional states of being.

Patience is usually seen as a positive emotion and impatience as a negative emotion.

Whether vibrating in a positive or a negative direction, they are both the state of my energy in motion and I will have to choose one or the other until I overcome the duality and find a 3rd way of Being.

My 3rd Way is to be Allowing.

When I am either waiting patiently or reacting impatiently, I am disallowing what I want to attract and manifest into my life.

Rational and Detached are two different states of Being.

They are not a duality and therefore not the same energy seen from an opposing perspective.

When being rational means being detached from my emotions, I am being unemotional and emotionally disconnected.

I cannot be both rational and detached unless I have a distinction between the two.

When I have no distinction between the two states of being, I am being disconnected emotionally.

When I am being Rational, I am conscious of my own physical reality, that I am creating with my thoughts, words and actions.

When I am being Detached, I am conscious of the fact that all other people are creating their own reality with their individual and unique thoughts, words and actions. I am emotionally transparent and unaffected by other peoples’ emotions.

When I am being rationally-detached I am lost within someone else’s logical reality as defined by a current and prevailing scientific world view.

Being rationally-detached is being unattached from my life-force energy and disconnected from my own creative ability.

Detachment is my gift when used in a Sensitive way without emotional attachment.

When I am being rationally-detached, I am exclusively disconnected from my gift of my own personal sense of Power.

My personal power comes with my emotional state of Being, which I disconnect from emotionally when I am being rationally-detached.

Emotional and Sensitive are two different states of Being.

They are not a duality and therefore not the same energy seen from a different perspective.

When emotional and sensitive have no distinction they create an emotionally sensitive Human Being.

I cannot be both emotional and sensitive unless I have a distinction between the two.

When I have no distinction between the two, I will be confused and become emotionally sensitive.

When I am being Emotional, I am aware of my own emotional state of being. The emotion that I am feeling is being created by me.

When I am being Sensitive, I am aware of the emotions of other people. The emotion that I am feeling is being created by someone else.

When I am being emotionally sensitive, I am unaware of whose emotion is affecting me emotionally and I am confused.

Being emotionally sensitive is being too sensitive, which is being attached emotionally to another or other people.

Sensitivity is a gift when I use it with non-attachment or Detachment. When it attaches me emotionally to other people it can be a curse.

When I am being emotionally sensitive I am likely to become inclusively connected to other people.

A Tolerance is a gap.

My ‘gap’ is my Space.

In my Space, I am connected to my Energy, my Power of Love.

Tolerance requires Love.

Without Love, Life becomes intolerable.

When I am tolerating Life, I am draining my power, my emotional energy becomes negative.

When I am accepting of everything that occurs in my Life, I am tolerating nothing.

When I am toleration free, I am able to access my full Power.

Accepting whatever turns up in Life is my Path.

Walking my Path is accepting all opportunities that are presented to me.

When I see the opportunity, I get the gift of Life.

An opportunity is always present in the gap that confronts me.

When I enter the gap with tolerance, I accept my Path and allow my power to flow to me.

When I am able to admire the qualities and attributes of another, I am being Admirable.

I admire another when I:

• Look approvingly at who they are being
• See the benefits of what they have attained
• Regard them with a positive outlook
• Respect who they are

I attain the ability to admire another when I become sensitively-detached to who they are being.

When emotionally attached to another, I will require patience to tolerate who they are.

When I am insensitive to another, I may become angry or intolerant of who they are being.

When sensitively-detached, I can overlook their negative short-comings and focus on their positive attributes.

With sensitive-detachment, I can see that their negative attitude is my opportunity to choose a better state of being for my Self.

With my vision of personal spiritual development and growth, I will attain the ability to admire my Self.

I am being Influent when I am:

• Effortless, free and flowing on my Life Path
• Fluent in the language of my Soul and hearing my messages with clarity
• Under the influence of my Soul’s Authority
• A shining example of my True Light

Being Influential is:

• Having power and authority over others
• Getting others to conform to my standards
• Believing that status, money & knowledge give me influence over others

My limiting beliefs will influence my behaviour until I become consciously aware of them and challenge their influence over me.

My emotional needs will influence my decision making and take priority over my actions.

The dramas that I attract in life will influence my character and my personality.

Being Influent is my true Identity and my Real Self never seeks to have influence over anyone.

Being Connected is:

• Feeling Inspired & Empowered
• Knowing who I am and my purpose in Life
• Seeing the bigger picture of Life
• Understanding my true value & worth

Being Sensitive is:

• Being aware of the emotional feelings of others
• Knowing how energy inter-relates between people
• Understanding the cause of moods and atmospheres
• Being aware of the existence of a non-physical reality

Being Emotional is:

• Being aware of my own emotional state of being
• Consciously managing how I feel emotionally
• Responding to life’s dramas in a positive way
• Being heart-centred and emotionally intelligent

Being Exclusive is:

• Being Self-Confident
• Standing in my own Authority
• Knowing my path in Life
• Expressing my True Identity

Being Detached is being:

• Independent and self-sufficient
• Transparent to life’s dramas
• Emotionally unattached to people and personal possessions
• Willing to change, step out, explore, discover & experience new horizons

Being Rational is:

• Approaching life in a logical way
• Creating order out of chaos
• Understanding how to solve problems
• Being able to analyse a situation and respond appropriately

Forgiveness is given by the Soul.

Acceptance is received by the Self.

Acceptance & Forgiveness are both given by the Soul and received by the Self.

The Self accepts whatever is forgiven by the Soul.

The Soul forgives whatever is accepted by the Self.

Acceptance & Forgiveness are:

• The same energy seen from opposing perspectives
• An act of giving and receiving between the Soul and the Self
• Without judgment, blame or conviction.
• Without any toleration of unacceptable behaviour
• Aspects of unconditional Love
• The same Attribute to an enlightened Being
• The choice of the Soul and the Self to be in perfect harmony
• The Self following the Path of its Soul
• Knowing who we are and why we are here

Forgiveness of the Self by the Self, requires the Self to be unconditionally Approving, Allowing & Accepting.

Forgiveness is Accepting whatever turns up and is occuring; Approving of whoever we are Being; and Allowing Abundance to manifest and materialise in our Life.