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Being Care-free

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Being Care-free is having no need to be cared for, and having no need to care for others. It is being free of the emotional need to care for others and the emotional need for others to care for me. Not caring and not being bothered are generally seen as negative attributes by those who [...]

Who I Am Being

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Who I Am Being in relationship to Life is an expression of Who I Am. In relationship to other people, I choose to: Express: Benevolent Co-operation Attribute: Compassionate Empathy Attain: Sensitive Detachment Be: Allowing In relationship to my Self, I choose to: Express: Concordant Equanimity Attribute: Intuitive Logic Attain: Emotional Intelligence Be: Approving In Relationship [...]

Honour

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Honour is: Being my best behaviour. Expressing who I am through my best behaviour is an honour. I honour the best behaviour of others. An honour is an acknowledgement of best behaviour. My best behaviour is my service. Being of service is my highest honour. Serving my Soul is an honour for my Self. In [...]

Being Vulnerable

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When Being Vulnerable is being susceptible to pain and suffering, I believe that I need protection in order to be safe. I believe that in order to be safe, I need to be protected from my vulnerability. When I need protection from my vulnerability, I am seen as weak, meek and helpless. When others see [...]

Acceptance is attaining the attribute of being Accepting. Being Accepting is not the same as doing accepting. Accepting is what I do when I receive something. It may be given by another or it may just occur in my presence. I always have choice. When I receive something with gratitude and appreciation, I get the [...]

Kindliness & Pleasing

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Pleasing others is conditional on what they give to me. I please other people because of the emotional power and the authority to choose that they give to me. I do not please another when there is no personal pleasure for myself. I do not bother to please other people if they do not please me in some [...]

Kindness & Kindliness are not the same thing and they are often confused. Kindness is my affinity in a generous way to my own kind. Kindliness is the ‘spark of light’ that is my affinity to my own True Self. The opposite of kindness is the meanness and miserliness that is expressed to people who [...]

Awe

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Awe is the experience of something more powerful than my self. My ego can never be more powerful than my self, it is my self. My Soul is more powerful than my Self, when I forget how powerful I am as my Soul. I am not in awe of my Soul, I am in Awe [...]

Give & Take

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Give & Take are often confused with giving & receiving, yet taking and receiving are not the same thing. Taking is seen as something that is not given willingly. When both partners are not giving and receiving equally, then one is being greedy and the other is pleasing that greed. When one partner is taking more than [...]

I am here to experience, to explore and to discover who I really am. My character and my personality define the role that I am playing, which is what I do. Who I really am is my Identity. Experience, exploration and discovery are the essence of identifying who I really am. My nature is the [...]