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Who I Am Being

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Who I Am Being in relationship to Life is an expression of Who I Am. In relationship to other people, I choose to: Express: Benevolent Co-operation Attribute: Compassionate Empathy Attain: Sensitive Detachment Be: Allowing In relationship to my Self, I choose to: Express: Concordant Equanimity Attribute: Intuitive Logic Attain: Emotional Intelligence Be: Approving In Relationship [...]

A Participating Observer is neither a Competitor nor a Spectator. As a Participating Observer, I am connected to what is happening yet detached from it. I am participating yet not competing. I am observing yet not spectating. I have no attachment to the outcome of the action. I have need to become involved. I choose to participate to [...]

Kindness

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Kindness is a knowing that we are all Alike. It is a state of Being Alike and of the same kith & kin. Kind & unkind, are a duality born out of the belief that we are all different. We are kind to those who we are like. We are unkind to those who are different. [...]

Being Content

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Being Content is the feeling that accompanies the knowing that I have enough. When I know that I have enough, I feel content. When I know that there are enough spaces to park my car, I feel content. One parking space is enough to allow me to be content. When I know that there is enough money [...]

Self Control

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Self Control requires discipline. Someone else’s discipline is not self control. Discipline aligns me with authority. Self Control is the 3rd way between ‘controlling others’ and ‘being controlled by others’. Controlling another involves instilling my discipline into them so that they follow my authority. It means getting them to do what I want. Being controlled [...]

My Level of Authority is determined by who makes my choices for me: Level One Authority is when I allow other people to decide for me. At level one I am highly influenced by what other people think when I am making a decision. I defer to the superior knowledge and authority of others when [...]

Victims are vulnerable to manipulation, persuasion and temptation. We protect victims from their vulnerability, but it doesn’t stop them being victims. Victims are always vulnerable to their victimhood, no matter how much protection they are given. When I suffer pain, I am vulnerable to pain & suffering, and I am being a victim of my [...]

Being Invulnerable

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When following my opportunities in life, I am Invulnerable. When empowered with inspiration, I am Being Invulnerable. I am invulnerable when I am following my true path. With faith in my True Self, I am protected. I never suffer from my opportunities in life, only my problems. It is the opportunities in my life that [...]

Being A Teacher

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Being a Teacher is not teaching others. Teaching others is what teachers purport to do. Being a Teacher is a state of Being not an act of teaching. The act of teaching is carried out by one who is acting as a teacher. Being a Teacher is the 3rd Way between the duality of Master [...]

Acceptance is attaining the attribute of being Accepting. Being Accepting is not the same as doing accepting. Accepting is what I do when I receive something. It may be given by another or it may just occur in my presence. I always have choice. When I receive something with gratitude and appreciation, I get the [...]