Bliss

Sep 03 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Spiritual Bliss is Pure Feeling.

Emotional Bliss is the feeling of Joy.

Feeling the emotion of pure joy is bliss, but it is not Spiritual Bliss.

Pure Feeling is more than just joy or the feeling of bliss.

Pure Feeling is True Happiness. It is the natural state of our Spirit.

When the spirit of Pure Feeling resonates with True Happiness, everything is Bliss.

In the Physical Realm, bliss is the attainment of True Happiness.

In this physical realm, I am a triality of physical, mental and emotional energy.

The attainment of true happiness requires all three aspects of my Self to resonate in harmony:

  • My physical self resonates with contentment
  • My emotional self resonates with joy
  • My mental self resonates with fulfilment

The joy of Bliss without contentment & fulfilment may be a pleasurable experience but it is not an expression of True Happiness.

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Give & Take

Aug 22 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Give & Take are often confused with giving & receiving, yet taking and receiving are not the same thing.

Taking is seen as something that is not given willingly.

When both partners are not giving and receiving equally, then one is being greedy and the other is pleasing that greed.

When one partner is taking more than the other is willing to give, then assertiveness and appeasement ensues with one partner asserting their dominance over the other.

Give & take are never in balance.

Giving and receiving are only in balance when what is given is received with gratitude and what is received is given with gratitude.

When give & take are replaced with being accepting and being allowing, the partnership attains equability.

When I am accepting of whatever is given and allowing of whatever is taken, I experience no energy loss and no energy gain. I become charge neutral, in balance and in harmony with my partner.

When my partner is accepting of whatever is given and allowing of whatever is taken, then we are able to share in the true sense of give & take, which is the balanced and equal state of being in equanimity with each other.

When give & take becomes allowing & accepting, there is no superiority, no selfishness, no conflict, no intimidation, nor any inferiority, unselfishness, appeasement or pleasing,  just a loving relationship that unconditionally approves of each others actions, what each other has, and who each other is being.

Compassion has truly replaced compromise.

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Agenda

Aug 08 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

An Agenda is a ‘to-do’ list.

My to-do list is a list of things that I need to do to achieve my objectives. 

My agenda is the list of things that I need other people to do to achieve my objectives.

A Company Chairman is responsible for achieving the objectives of the Company.

A meeting agenda is the to do list of that company of people. It is what the Chairman needs other people to do.

The purpose of a meeting is to agree who is responsible for doing and achieving what needs to be done.

Objectives are achieved by the completion of relevant tasks successfully.

An agenda sets out the tasks that are required to achieve those objectives.

People who have their own agenda do not work well within a team or a company.

A Chief Executive who has an ulterior motive or agenda to that of the company, will never succeed.

My Soul has no agenda and no to-do list.

My Soul has a ‘To-Be’ list.

I don’t need other people to decide who I choose to Be.

My ‘to-be’ list has no agenda.

Happiness & Well-being are states of Being.

An Ego that follows its own agenda will never attain Fulfilment.

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Simplicity

Jul 14 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

An effortless life requires Simplicity.

A life of simplicity has contentment, fulfilment and joy.

A simple life is not an easy life.

It is not easy living an effortless life in a world of paradox and dual reality.

An effortless life requires a deep connection to my power and my authority.

It requires the power and the authority to hear the messages and to see the signs that allow direction and clarity to be present.

With direction and clarity, simplicity is present, and I am able to follow my path effortlessly.

Attaining direction, clarity and presence is not easy.

It requires the attainment of my intuitive senses of seeing, feeling and knowing.

When I see the potential of my contentment, know the force of my fulfilment, and feel the magnitude of my joy, I am experiencing life effortlessly and life simply has simplicity.

A difficult life is hard and complicated, seldom easy, and never effortless.

Simplicity is simple but not easy, and not hard, it is effortlessness in action.

Simplicity flows from my Source.

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Parental Pride

Jul 10 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Parental Pride is rooted in the need for my children to succeed and to do well.

It is the result of my children’s achievement and a measure of how well they are doing.

Parental pride justifies my beliefs as a parent and my role as a parent.

It applies when my children meet my standards that are set by me.

Parental pride is about me, not about my children.

The question is: “Who is setting the standard, me or my child”?

When my children are achieving my success, they are pleasing me and seeking my approval and my proud attention.

Parental pride measures how well my child is doing from my perspective. It is about their well-doing rather than their well-being.

The success and achievement of my children doing well are my fleeting moments of pleasure.

Parental pride is a fleeting moment of pleasure that is dependent on my children’s ability and successful achievement.

My well-being is the result of me following my path in life and attaining my own personal development and growth.

The attainment of well-being brings me lasting joy. A joy that I choose to share with my children.

Parental joy is the experience of well-being and compassion that is shared with my children as they attain their own sense of experiencing being Well on their own journey of development and growth.

My true happiness is the parental joy of my children’s attainments, not the parental pride of their achieving my standards of material success.  

My children are no longer my pride and joy. They are just a Joy.

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Kind, Caring & Considerate

Jun 22 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Being Kind, Caring & Considerate are modern virtues, but they are not Divine Attributes.

They all have a gender and a polar opposite.

The negative polar opposites are being unkind, uncaring and inconsiderate.

They have male gender opposites of being envious, insensitive and selfish.

Female gender energy is considered virtuous and male gender energy is judged to be sinful. Neither are Divine.

The female energy of being kind, caring and considerate is an act of humility, pleasing and unselfishness that is ‘giving’ emotional energy to another.

The male energy of being envious, insensitive and selfish is greedy, proud and arrogant that seeks to ‘take’ emotional energy from another.

Emotional energy that is divided by either gender or polarity is not Divine.

Divine Energy (Holy Spirit) is whole and undivided by either gender or polarity.

When I believe that it is better to give than to receive, being kind, caring and considerate will be seen as morally good.

When I believe that giving and receiving are required to be in balance, I will choose Compassion, Equanimity & Sensitive-Detachment to attain Goodness.

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Reverence

Jun 20 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Reverence is a posh name for pleasing.

Reverence is idol worship.

It is a deep respect for someone whose position we hold in awe and honour.

I am pleasing someone’s greed and desire to be seen as superior when I humble myself to the position and the status of another.

Worshipping or idolising someone’s status is envy.

When I respect or revere a person’s position, I am envying their knowledge, status or power that is conveyed through their character or their personality.

Reverence acknowledges and respects the esteem of another. When that self-esteem is founded on status and position in society, it is false.

I Truly Respect and hold in high esteem the attributes and attainments of another when expressing their true identity.

It is only possible to have a deep and profound understanding of the attributes that another has attained once one has attained those attributes oneself.

Sharing those deep and profound attainments with another is the act of True Compassion and is truly Reverent.

We all have an equal potential to experience true compassion and attain the state of being Reverent.

Being Reverent is the state of sharing the attainments of another at the level of one’s Soul.

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Rectitude

May 18 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Rectitude is:

  • Being Righteous
  • Taking right action
  • Having faith in my covenant
  • Following my path

My Path is justified by my Soul.

My Path just is, my path, that I have chosen.

My path is my faith and my covenant with my Soul.

I have faith that my path is the right path for me.

I journey along my path with faith and righteousness.

My Soul has the Rectitude to guide and support its Self on its Right Path.

My Inner Coach guides me to take the right action to allow my Self to experience expansive growth and new opportunities with Rectitude.

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Spontaneity

May 15 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Life flows effortlessly with Spontaneity.

Spontaneity is an intuitive response to life.

When I respond to life’s calling my spontaneity is instinctive.

Spontaneity has a chaotic order.

When my ego tries to organise life into order, it disallows spontaneity and flow.

A life without spontaneity decays eventually into the chaos of boredom.

When I allow life to happen, it occurs spontaneously.

Spontaneity is the third way out of the duality of order and chaos.

Spontaneity overcomes boredom and repetition.

Spontaneity is when my Self and my Soul embrace in the Dance of Life.

My Soul responds intantly because it can.

My Self responds instinctively and intuitively when it chooses.

Spontaneity is the instance of intuition and instinct in harmony.

Spontaneity requires a Divine Acceptance that Life Just Is.

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Work, Rest & Play

Apr 21 2010 Published by theinnercoach under Spiritual Development

Work, Rest & Play are a Divine Triality of Life.

When this triality is out of balance, it is no longer divine.

When I try to balance work and life to achieve a work-life balance, I will fail because work and life are not in conflict or opposition.

When work is tension and rest is relaxation, I have created a duality that will unfold as a drama, that excludes play from my life.

Rest is what I do when I am asleep. When asleep I am at rest from physical life. Rest is essential for a healthy life. Rest allows me to recover physically, mentally and emotionally in order to remain healthy.

Play is what I do when I finish work. Play is how I enjoy my life doing what I truly value. Play allows me to express my power and feel my wealth.

Work is the expression of my vision, mission and purpose for my life. It is following my life path and revealing my destiny. It is following my Light and revealing my Wisdom. It is aligning with my True Self.

With my work, rest and play in balance and harmony, I become an expression of my True Self.

A Healthy Life needs Rest, a Wealthy Life allows Play and a Life of Wisdom requires Work.

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