Posts Tagged Attainments
Effortless Expansiveness
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on March 11, 2010
An Effortless Life has flow.
An Expansive Life has growth.
My Life is designed to flow and grow, effortlessly and expansively.
When I flow effortlessly in life, I am connected to the authority of my Soul. I am following my Soul’s choices.
My Soul’s choice is to appreciate and grow through the experiences of my Self.
As I appreciate and grow my power expands as its magnitude increases.
As I realise the magnitude of my own power through my life experiences, I am able to make new choices as new opportunities flow to me.
As new opportunities flow to me and I effortlessly accept them as a gift, without resistance , they allow me to expand and grow.
When my ego self resists this flow of life, I experience a state of inertia, entropy or friction.
Life then becomes hard, fearful, problematic and slothful.
My ability to become Effortlessly Expansive requires an exclusive connection to my own personal power and authority.
Effortlessly Accepting Life
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on February 22, 2010
An Effortless Life is problem-free.
Problems are the resistance to life flowing freely.
Problems are the entropy that creates friction and makes life an effort.
Solving problems is an effort and a toleration.
All problems are a toleration and require tolerance.
Tolerating life is unacceptable because it is not effortless.
Being ‘Accepting of Life’ is receiving everything that occurs in life as an opportunity.
When I see my life as an opportunity, there are no problems and I am problem-free.
Opportunities arrive effortlessly.
Problems present resistance and challenge.
Challenges carry the possibility of failure, opportunities do not.
Overcoming tolerations is the pathway to Acceptance.
Effortlessly Accepting Life is my greatest opportunity.
Eldership
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on February 3, 2010
Eldership is True Leadership.
The True Leaders of a Society are its Elders.
True Leaders have the wisdom to follow their own path and to allow all others to follow their own path.
It is not age that qualifies me to be a Leader but wisdom.
A leader need followers, Elders do not.
Elders have overcome the duality of leaders and followers.
Elders lead their own life and follow their own path.
Eldership is determined by my state of Being, not by my actions.
A persons preference to lead or to follow is determined by their individual emotional needs.
Elders are recognised by the influence of their Presence and their Beingness.
A leader requires the authority of their followers.
Elders have the authority of their own confident choice.
A leader decides what to do and how to do it.
Elders decide who to be in relationship to what is occurring.
A Gathering of Elders has no leader and requires no followers.
Gentlemen & Gentlewomen
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on January 31, 2010
Gentlemen and Gentlewomen are both ‘Gentle’ folk.
Being Gentle requires the attainment of ‘Gentleness’.
Gentleness has great personal emotional power.
The attainment of great power requires my alignment with my highest authority.
My highest authority is my Soul.
When my authority is aligned with my Soul, I connect with great power, the power of my Soul, which is Love.
My Soul allows me unconditional authority to choose for my Self, and the power to assert that choice.
My Soul has no authority over others and therefore cannot allow me to have power over others.
I have no authority over others by right. Taking authority for other people’s choices may motivate me but it will never empower me.
When my authority requires force, it means that it is without force and is not empowered by Love.
Without Gentleness, the force that I give to my authority comes from my ego’s will power and will often be seen as hostile and aggressive by others.
Aggressive force requires strength of will, not Gentleness.
Gentle folk are connected to their true power and authority and therefore never need to seek power or authority over other people.
Courtesy, Etiquette & Manners
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on January 29, 2010
The standards of behaviour of the Upper classes is called Courtesy.
The Aristocracy behave as they wish and they see fit. They conform or humble themselves only to their Sovereign, which they see as being courteous or acting as they would in a Royal Court.
The standards of behaviour of the Middle Classes is called Etiquette.
Etiquette is the standard of behaviour that people who wish to better themselves choose to aspire to.
Etiquette is how the middle classes believe that the upper clases behave and thus aspire to emulate them.
The standards of behaviour of the Lower Classes is called Manners.
Manners are the manner in which the majority of working class people approve of other working class people behaving.
Lower Class people see working class people as having impeccable manners. Upper class people see the manner of working class people as disgusting.
Standards of Behaviour are the standards of behaviour that we find tolerable and wish others to adopt, irrespective of whether we call them manners, etiquette or courtesy.
All people who tolerate others are standardised by their class.
When I become ‘Accepting’ of all others, I allow all others to follow their own standards of behaviour, knowing that it is their behaviour and their standard and not mine.
With unconditional ‘Acceptance’ of all others, boundaries are no longer necessary.
Common Courtesy
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on January 28, 2010
Common Courtesy is an oxymoron.
Courtesy is the standard of behaviour displayed by Courtiers at a Royal Court. It is elitist and never common.
Courtesy is the etiquette and the manner of the Aristocratic upper classes not the common people.
Courtesy is what common people often aspire to because it is not common to most people.
Common courtesy is often seen as the behaviour required of a Gentleman.
Acting like a Gentleman requires me to be ‘Gentle’ rather than Courteous.
Attaining ‘Gentleness’ is the state of being ‘Powerful yet Accepting’ and being ‘Authoritative yet Allowing’.
Being Courteous is behaving in a manner fit for a royal audience as instructed by a royal courtier.
Being Courteous is being humble and deferring to the Sovereign and the Crown. It is obeying the rules and traditions of that Dominion.
Being Common is behaving in a manner and to a standard of the majority of the populus who are the Common People.
Being Common in the presence of Royalty is seen as arrogant and rude.
In the presence of Royalty I can choose Courtesy, Common-ness or Gentleness.
Attaining Distinction
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on January 14, 2010
My Distinction doesn’t come from what I am doing. It comes from who I am being whilst I am doing what I am doing.
Attaining Divine Attributes has Distinction. Divine Attributes have Distinction because they are not divided with a dual reality.
Normal human behaviour follows normal human beliefs that are experienced with normal human emotions.
Normal human beliefs, behaviours and emotions do not by definition have distinction.
Normal human beliefs create behaviours that have emotions with a wide range of intensity.
The intensity of human behaviour is determined by the polarity (positive or negative) of the belief and the gender (male or female) of the emotional state of being with which the behaviour is carried out.
Balancing the polarity of my beliefs brings them into harmony and attains Distinction.
Balancing the gender of my emotional feelings unites them in co-operation and equilibrium and attains Distinction.
Equalising the intensity of my behaviour is achieved by balancing the polarity of my beliefs and the gender of my emotional state of being.
The polarity of my beliefs is the direction in which my beliefs allow me to make choices. (Whether I believe that something is either good or bad for me and I either want it or not).
The gender of my emotions is determined by which perspective of life my beliefs allow me. (e.g. whether I have learned to be proud or to have humility)
When the polarity and gender of my emotional energy is no longer divided, I have overcome the duality of physical life and I attain distinction.
In this physical world of relative dual reality, duality is the norm, distinction is required to be attained.
Inner Peace
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on December 24, 2009
Inner Peace is my natural state of being.
With Inner Peace, I am without inner conflict.
My inner conflict is created by my unauthorised thoughts, my limiting beliefs, my fears and my low self-confidence.
I declare Inner Peace with my Self once I attain authority for my thoughts with confidence, I own my beliefs and I become fearless.
Without Inner Peace my external world will be at war. I will be in conflict with other people because of my lack of Inner Peace.
Peace cannot reign in my Inner World until I have sovereignty over my Inner World.
World Peace will be attained when each individual declares their own personal Inner Peace.
Unless I own my Inner Peace, I will fear the lack of inner peace that others reflect to me.
The only real threats to my Inner Peace are my own thoughts and beliefs.
Wars are not started by religion but they are often the manifestation of fearful, limited and unauthorised choices based on peoples’ religious beliefs.
Personal Inner Peace is the only way to manifest World Peace.
Quality of Life
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on December 19, 2009
Quality is the measure of my ability to enjoy Life.
My Quality of Life is determined by the attributes that I have attained.
My Attributes are the emotional states of being that I am able to attribute to my Self.
In a relative dual reality existence, my emotions are either positive or negative, are either male or female, and they have varying relative intensities.
In Absolute Reality there is only Love as a Pure Vibration.
Love is the Divine Attribute.
Aspects of Love that are experienced as Divine have no duality. They have a frequency, wavelength and vibration that is undivided by either gender, polarity or intensity.
My Attainments are the Divine Attributes that I have attained and can consciously choose at will.
Attributes are the expressions of who I am Being that have my Approval.
Attainments are the expressions of what I have attained and I am Allowing.
Qualities are the expressions of what I am attracting in my Life and what I am Accepting as a gift.
Life has inherent Quality. The question is: “Am I experiencing it”?
Cleanliness
Posted by theinnercoach in Spiritual Development on November 9, 2009
“Cleanliness is next to Godliness”.
But what is Cleanliness?
Cleanliness is Divine.
Being clean is the opposite of being dirty.
Being clean is not Cleanliness when it is in opposition to being dirty.
Pure Cleanliness has no opposing duality.
I always have 3 choices and the 3rd choice is always divine.
I can be not clean enough (dirty), I can be too clean (fastidiously obsessive), or I can be clean enough.
When I am clean enough, I attain Cleanliness.
When I am too clean, I am in opposition to dirtiness.
My personal standards of cleanliness will determine whether I am too clean or too dirty.
True Cleanliness is an attainment not a standard.
Standards require a personal judgment, attainments require acceptance.
True Cleanliness is the Purity of Being and the Purity of Thought that is attained when I connect to my True Power and Authority.
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