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The Personal Development of the Client

January 30, 2012 No comments

The Personal Development of the Client is the goal of every Coach.

The type of personal development is determined by the type of Coach.

A Corporate Coach develops an individual client within their work environment, to improve knowledge, skills, talent, profitability, work potential, & human capital, to achieve the ability to lead & manage people.

A Life Coach develops an individual client in all aspects of their business-life, home-life and social-life to improve self-awareness, identity, spirituality, human potential, lifestyle, quality of life, health, & all their aspirations, to attain the ability to lead & manage their own life.

With corporate coaching, the client and the coachee are not always the same person, whereas with life coaching the coachee is also the client.

Coaching is always a one-to-one discipline for the personal development of an individual.

When a Company is the client and the aim of the Coach is the development of the Company, the objective of the Coach is the objective of the Company and is no longer the subject of the coachee.

When the objective of a Company is the personal development of each individual employee, the Company has a choice as to whether they employ a Corporate Coach or a Life Coach, or both.

With Life Coaching, the Coachee is the client being personally developed.

With Corporate Coaching, the business is the client and the Coach is personally developing the client’s business via the Coachee.

Life Qualities

January 29, 2012 No comments

Life Qualities enable my quality of life.

The quality of my life is determined by my Life Qualities.

They are my Attainments in a life of quality.

Attainments are my personal attributes that I am able to consciously choose at will.

Attributes are the emotional states of being that I attribute to myself in any present moment.

My emotional state of being determines the quality of my life.

The more emotional balance that I attain, the greater the quality of life that I am able to experience.

The attainment of my life qualities and the pursuant quality of life is my mission in life that I am actively pursuing.

My lack of quality of life is the consequence of my lack of quality attainments that I am able to attribute to my Self.

My negative quality of life is attributed to my unbalanced emotional states of being that are the consequence of my negative outlook, on a life that appears to lack quality.

My positive life qualities allow me to lead an ideal life of my own choice.

It is only with the ability of my own leadership qualities, that I can determine the quality of my own ideal life.

Life Qualities & Leadership Qualities amount to the same thing, for someone who leads their own life in a quality way.

 

The Sin of Arrogance

January 28, 2012 No comments

Sin means ‘being without’.

Arrogance is the state of being without my own true power, authority & ability.

Without a connection to my own true power, I default to the arrogance of my avarice or greed.

Being greedy attaches me to the emotional power of those who are humble to my needs, and please me.

Without a connection to my own true authority, I default to the arrogance of my anger or wrath.

Being angry allows me authority over the humble who are meek & patient.

Without a connection to my own true ability, I default to the arrogance of my hubris or pride.

Being proud allows my ability to appear better than those with humility, who have the humbleness of modesty.

The Sin of Arrogance is a state of being without the worth of my true power, the confidence of my true authority, and the esteem of my true ability.

I will never find the confidence & value of my true esteem by virtue of being humble to the arrogance of another.

Grounded & Earthed

January 27, 2012 No comments

Grounded & Earthed are two different perspectives of the same thing.

From the perspective of my physical conscious ego Self, I am Earthed.

Earthed means alive on the Planet Earth.

I am ‘alive’ on the Planet Earth whilst connected to my power & authority

Electricity is not ‘live’ unless it is earthed.

My life-force energy flows through my physical body when I am earthed.

From the perspective of my Super-conscious Soul, I am grounded.

Grounded means that I have lost my freedom to fly as a free spirit. I have the power to walk the Earth but no authority to fly.

My Spirit is free but my ego is grounded.

Grounded means that I am able to pursue a physical human existence.

Ungrounded means that I am not earthing my power or my authority effectively. I have either too much power or too little authority to use it, which means that my energy is not sufficiently earthed.

Unless my Self is properly ‘earthed’ I will be ‘grounded’ by my Soul.

I can make choices whilst I am grounded, but I need to be correctly earthed in order to manifest them as my reality.

 

 

Open & Closed Questions

January 26, 2012 No comments

A Closed Question endorses a state of dual reality as it prompts a yes or no answer.

Yes or no is a statement of a personal perspective that either agrees of disagrees with a question.

Whether my view is positive or negative determines my yes or no answer, when I believe that something is either good or bad, right or wrong or acceptable or unacceptable.

A positive or negative polarity exists only within a duality of a dual reality existence.

To overcome the duality of a situation and expand my development, I am required to ask an open question.

An Open Question starts with the words: When; where; why; who; what; which; or how.

It opens the door to exploring the state of my existence and allows for me to shift into an alternative perspective and an improved state of being.

Who am I? Why am I here? & Where am I going? are three very powerful open questions.

 

 

Coaching with a Vision

January 25, 2012 No comments

There are 3 types of Coaches:

  1. Coaches who have a vision for their own life and know their vision with clarity
  2. Coaches who do not know that they have a vision for their life
  3. Coaches who know they have a vision but as yet do not know what their vision is.

It is the discovery of the vision for my own life that allows me to coach another to discover their vision for their life.

The discovery of one’s life vision allows one to explore the true purpose of one’s life with clarity.

In the absence of knowing their vision or knowing that they have a vision, a Coach usually states as their reason for coaching :”Helping other people” or “Making money”.

When the client becomes the purpose of the coaching, the Coach’s ability to discover their own true purpose and learn their own vision becomes greatly compromised.

The Coach becomes driven by their own need to coach and the client’s need to be coached, with the motivation to fulfil their own sub-conscious emotional needs rather than being empowered by the true value of coaching.

When the Coach’s needs remain unmet, there is the possibility of an attachment forming that inevitably leads to a co-dependent relationship between the Coach and the Client.

Helping to develop others is an objective; never a vision.

The objective of coaching is to guide & support the client to meet their own needs; not to meet their needs for them.

Only when the Coach becomes consciously aware of their own emotional needs and their own true values are they able to know their own vision, mission & purpose in life; and only then does it become clear that they are able to Coach with a Vision.

 

 

 

Inner Balance

January 24, 2012 No comments

My Inner World contains the beliefs and the emotions that create my Outer World.

Harmony in my outer world depends on balance in my inner world.

My beliefs and emotions reside in the realm of my sub-conscious self or id.

My inner world is either in alignment or mis-alignment with my Super-conscious soul.

It is in balance when it is in alignment and when out of alignment it becomes unbalanced.

My conscious ego self will never find harmony with an unbalanced sub-conscious id.

My conscious ego Self attains Inner Balance when my sub-conscious id comes into alignment with my super-conscious entity.

When my sub-conscious & super-conscious, higher & lower selves, become united in alignment and agreement, I am able to express the True Id-Entity of my Conscious Ego Self.

Inner balance is attained when the gender of my emotions harmonises as one united wavelength and the polarity of my beliefs synchronises as one congruent frequency and creates a balanced intensity of physical life that has one pure vibration of energy, and is attractive to all aspects of life.

My inner balance allows my outer harmony to be created by my inner peace.

With inner balance, outer balance is assured.

When no aspect of my inner being is in conflict then no conflict can be expressed or experienced in the outside world.

It is the Law.

Best, Better, Good

January 23, 2012 No comments

The current teaching paradigm is to take good students and make them better educated, until they become the best that they can be.

This process of educational development and training follows a path of being good, better & best.

Teachers are realising that when you try to make a bad student better, they just get worse, until they become the worst that they can be.

Coaching is successful because it works on a new and different paradigm that reverses the trend.

It takes the best that a person already is and supports their growth & development so that they improve and get better and better, until they become Good.

Coaches recognise that ‘Good’ is a measure of the best that we can be, because everyone has the potential to be Good.

A Good Coach knows that their client already is the best that they can be, under their present circumstances, and also recognises their potential for improvement and their ability to get better & better in order to realise their Goodness.

Coaching takes the positives and develops the potential of their best aspects.

Education looks at the negatives of what the student doesn’t have and tries to change them for the better with a positive education.

The Trainer takes good potential, makes it better until it becomes the best it can be.

The Coach then takes the best you can be, makes it better & better until it is really Good.

Teaching & training tries to turn bad into good.

Coaching recognises everything that is Good.

Intentions & Visions

January 22, 2012 No comments

My Soul has a Vision for my life and intends for my Self to live it.

My Self is intent on living my Vision.

In the absence of a vision, my Self seeks to find its vision.

In the realisation of my vision, my Self seeks to experience that realisation as a reality and realise that reality as an experience.

My Soul’s sole Intention is for my Self to realise my vision through physical experience.

In the absence of seeking a vision, the Self is intent on finding sufficient emotional energy to remember that it has a vision.

In the absence of sufficient emotional energy to remember, my Soul is intent on my Self gaining more and more energy in order to remember.

My ego’s sole intention is to find the motivation to gain more and more ability to achieve the power to do what it truly values, instead of doing what it needs to do to maintain its level of emotional power in order to remember its mission and purpose in life.

The objective of my ego is to fulfil the tasks required to gain sufficient power to meet its real intentions, even though it has no idea what the Soul really intends for it to do, once it has the emotional power to do it.

Unless that is I have a clear Intention to follow my Vision.

Objectives & Objections

January 21, 2012 No comments

Objectives are things that I would like to achieve.

They are things outside of my present experience that I do not have.

Objectives are objective, not subjective.

They are the object of my desires, not the subject of who I really am.

My own objectives belong to my ego Self, they are not the subject of my eternal Soul.

I subject my Self to my intentions, not my objectives.

The objectives of my Self are not always in alignment with the intentions of my Soul.

Objections are the resistance that my sub-conscious Self puts in the way of my conscious objectives.

My objections are my limiting beliefs manifesting in my conscious mind.

They are my reasons why my objectives cannot be achieved.

My Soul has no objections and never objects to my objectives.

When my Self has no objections to my objectives, I have a subjective view of my clear intention because my Self and my Soul are in total alignment.

 

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