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Objectives are things that I would like to achieve.

They are things outside of my present experience that I do not have.

Objectives are objective, not subjective.

They are the object of my desires, not the subject of who I really am.

My own objectives belong to my ego Self, they are not the subject of my eternal Soul.

I subject my Self to my intentions, not my objectives.

The objectives of my Self are not always in alignment with the intentions of my Soul.

Objections are the resistance that my sub-conscious Self puts in the way of my conscious objectives.

My objections are my limiting beliefs manifesting in my conscious mind.

They are my reasons why my objectives cannot be achieved.

My Soul has no objections and never objects to my objectives.

When my Self has no objections to my objectives, I have a subjective view of my clear intention because my Self and my Soul are in total alignment.

 

Arrogance is a combination of pride, greed & wrath.

When my wrath is filled with pride or greed, I am being arrogant.

My Pride is being better or more able than another.

My Greed is being superior or more powerful than another.

My wrath is the anger that I experience when following the authority of another.

Arrogance is born of the belief that I have the authority to be more able, more powerful, more correct and therefore better than another.

My arrogance lacks humility, patience, meekness and the ability to please another.

Humbleness is a combination of the modesty of humility, the appeasement of pleasing, and the patience of meekness.

When I please another with humility and meekness, I am being humble.

Humility is the modesty of pretending to be not as good or able as I actually am and being proud of not being proud.

Pleasing is giving one’s energy for the benefit of another and appeasing their superior power.

Meekness is the patience of allowing someone else to be right and not being angered by their authority.

Humbleness is born of the belief that I am inferior to another in status, influence, authority, & ability and therefore less worthy.

My humbleness is without pride, greed or wrath.

It is fuelled by my lack of authority that is created by too much false confidence in my own limiting beliefs that belittle the power of my own ability.

 

 

My True Value

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My True Value is an expression of my Soul’s Power.

When I express my value emotionally, I emote power.

My emotive power is a measure of how I am feeling.

How I am feeling is determined by my emotional state of being.

My state of being is defined as an emotion.

My emotional state of being is an expression of what I do or do not value.

Doing what I truly value to do allows me to experience being who I truly value being.

I am a truly valuable Being.

My Beingness has true value when it is powerful.

The more full of power my state of being, the more value that it has for my Self.

When my Self emotes the Beingness of my Soul, it has True Value for me.

Who my Soul is, has true value for me because my Truth is very valuable to me.

My question is: “Is who I am presently being, worthy of my Self because it is an expression of the True Value of my Confidence in my Soul”.

A worthless life has no value.

Without perceived value, my life appears to be worthless.

My values are an expression of my self-worth.

Whatever my Self values, has worth for me.

My self-worth is a measure of how much I value my Self.

It is a measure of the value & worth that I have for my Self.

Whatever I value but do not have, becomes a need.

I am motivated to get what I need because it has great value to my Self.

Whatever has value for my Self, motivates me.

I am sub-consciously driven to experience whatever has value for my Self.

Getting my needs met has value, but it is not always in alignment with and worthy of my True Self.

My True Worth is an expression of my True Self.

A True Value is the power of my Soul expressed by my Self.

True Confidence

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My Soul communicates with my Self in Confidence.

In confidence, I communicate with my True Self.

I hear my messages ‘in confidence’.

My messages are confidential and for my ears only.

They are for my Self and my Self alone.

My True Confidence comes with hearing my messages.

What I intuitively ‘see’, I have confidence in.

What I intuitively ‘know’, I do with confidence.

What I intuitively ‘feel’, is being confident.

When I am feeling good, I am confident.

When I know what is right for me, I am confident.

When I see it my way, I am confident.

Intuitively in alignment with my Truth, I am Truly Confident.

Intuition allows my confidence to flow.

When my confidence flows, life flows effortlessly.

My effortless life is an expression of my True Confidence.

Confident Authority

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The only confidence that I have in someone else’s authority is the knowing that it is their authority and not mine.

When following someone else’s faith or beliefs, I will always lack confidence.

A lack of confidence is the consequence of following someone else’s authority.

Under my own authority, I will have self-confidence.

I have the self-confidence to follow my own authority because self-confidence comes from following my own authority.

It is the consequence of self belief, belief in one’s self, and the belief in one’s own beliefs.

It is my conviction in my belief that determines my confidence in my self.

Confident beliefs and confidence in my beliefs allows my self-confidence, and allows my self to be confident.

Arrogant beliefs create arrogance, not self-confidence.

Humble beliefs create humbleness, not self-confidence.

Confidence in my Authority comes with faith in my Self, not trusting others.

With faith, I know that I am on my true path; I know that I am authorised; I know that I am in confidence with my Truth.

Confident authority is an expression of my Truth.

My True Identity

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My True Identity is determined by my Attributes and my Attainments, not my personality & character.

I am not the product of my beliefs and my emotional needs, which are personal to me and characteristic of me, but not the real me.

My personality & character are just aspects of the role that I am presently playing out in the drama of this life-time.

My personal attributes have been attained over the course of many life-times.

They are my states of being; the vibrations of emotion with which I resonate; the gifts that I am born with.

I have attained emotional attributes with which I can resonate as my natural state of being.

Children of the same family will have different personalities & characters because, even though they may share the same beliefs and similar emotional needs, they all have different attributes that are their unique gift that they have attained and present in this life-time as an expression of their true identity.

It is the true identity of my personal attributes & attainments that is attractive to other people, not my personality & character.

It is my true identity that attracts people with a similar true identity, so that we may share our attributes in the attainment of our mutual personal spiritual development & growth.

 

My Personality is determined by my emotional energy needs.

My unique set of emotional needs determines my individual personality.

We all have a unique personality that is determined by our own personal set of emotional needs.

Each Individual has up to 10 different emotional needs arranged in a priority order that is determined by their current circumstances.

As my circumstances change, my emotional need for energy changes, how I sub-consciously meet that need changes and with it, my personality changes.

Personality often changes between home-life and work-life because the need for emotional energy changes and how the need is met changes.

My Character is determined by my belief system.

My belief system determines the character of the role that I am playing in life.

Different beliefs create different characters in different cultures, races, creeds and societies.

My beliefs about what I am doing determines the role that I am actioning and the character that I am adopting.

The belief that I am either a girl or a boy, or a man or a woman, creates my male or female characteristics.

As I change my need for emotional power, my personality changes.

As I become aware of and change my sub-conscious beliefs, my actions change and my character changes.

Neither my personality nor my character are my True Identity.

 

Being Effortlessly Happy requires:

  • The Power to be pain-free
  • The Joy of being free of pain
  • The Wealth that is full of joy
  • The Omnipotent feeling of being wealthy
  • Love

Being Effortlessly Happy requires:

  • The Authority to be fearless
  • The Fulfilment of being free of fear
  • The Wisdom of being fulfilled
  • The Omniscient knowing that I am wise
  • Light

Being Effortlessly Happy requires:

  • The Ability to be problem-free
  • The contentment of being free of problems
  • The Health of being content
  • The Omnipresent state of seeing that I am healthy
  • Life

Being Effortlessly Happy requires:

The Power, Authority & Ability to be pain-free, fearless, & problem-free with the Attainment of my Wealth, Wisdom & Health and the intuitive sense of Feeling, Knowing & Seeing my Attributes of Joy, Fulfilment & Contentment that allow my experience of Love & Light in a Life of Effortless Happiness.

 

Seeking & Finding

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I am Seeking that which I have lost.

I seek my path in life when I believe that I am lost.

I believe that I am lost when I do not know the way.

It is my vision for my life that illuminates my path and shows me the way.

With a clear vision, I am found and no longer lost or confused.

Finding the vision that is my path gives my life purpose.

My vision is my picture of the ideal life that I have come to create.

My purpose is who I am required to be in order to live my vision and to create my life with reason & purpose.

When I understand my purpose, I am no longer a seeker of my vision but a finder of my purpose.

My purpose is to find my True Self because it is as my True Self and only as my True Self that I can live my Vision.

Once I am a seeker of my vision and a finder of my purpose, I become a Leader of my own Life.