Sloth is being offtrack.

It is being stuck in the density and the resistance of physical life.

Sloth is the ‘goo’ of entropy and the friction of resistance that slows life down to a crawl.

When being slothful, I am disconnected from the free flowing energy of Life.

Sloth is the consequence of a depleted life-force energy that has lost its will to continue.

Sloth is not laziness it is resignation.

In a slothful state of being, I need to be re-assigned.

Laziness is the opposite of hard work.

I work hard for other people.

Lazy is what other people call me when I am not doing what they want quickly enough.

I work for other people diligently.

I follow my own path effortlessly.

Working for others is never effortless.

Following my own path is never hard work and I am never lazy.

Effortlessly doing what I truly value with vision and with purpose requires me to overcome the duality of sloth and diligence, laziness and hard-work, and re-align myself with my true path and my true authority.

Perfection is being good enough. When I am good enough, life will be perfect.

It is the balance, the midpoint between being too good and not being good enough.

Excellence is the best that I can be.

It is the measure of my best achievement.

Excellence is the height of my achievement.

Perfection is the magnitude of my attainment.

Perfection is how Good I have become.

Excellence is a journey of becoming good, then better until I am the best that I can be.

Perfection is a journey of discovering Goodness or Godness by experiencing what is not good enough in comparison to what is too good or more than good enough.

Perfection is attained when I become Good enough or I have attained Goodness.

Excellence must be maintained in order to be achieved and must be consistently achieved in order to be maintained.

Excellence is never good enough, as the best that I can be can always be bettered.

There is nothing better than the perfection of Goodness.

The Role of the Parent & Guardian is to foster the growth of an infant through childhood and adolescence to adulthood.

The Purpose of a parent & Guardian is to provide guidance and support during that process, called ‘growing up’.

Growing up means learning to live in the physical world  independently of other people by being able to make personal choices.

Guardians and parents set boundaries that are the standards of behaviour deemed suitable for the child, and meet their physical and emotional needs, in order for them to be safe, secure, comfortable and motivated in their life.

A Parent is distinct from being just a Guardian when they are emotionally attached to their child.

When the parent needs the child as much as the child needs the parent, a very strong emotional attachment is formed.

A True Guardian, as distinct from a foster parent, is sensitively detached in their role of guardianship.

When sensitive to my children’s needs in a detached way, I allow them to follow their own path and grow and mature to independence naturely under their own power, authority and ability.

“Blood is only thicker than water when it stops flowing”.

Rationalising is a left brain process of analysis and thinking.

Emoting is a right brain process of expression and feeling.

Rationalising my emotions is an activity of my brain to understand my feelings.

Emoting my rationale is an activity of my solar plexus to express my reasoning.

When explaining my emotions to a rational person, I am rationalising emotions.

When expressing my feelings to an emotional person, I am emoting my rationale.

When explaining my emotions to an emotional person, I appear to be unemotional.

When expressing my feelings to a rational person, I appear to be irrational.

When I unite my right brain and my left brain with my solar plexus, I become both emotionally rational, able to rationalise my emotions, and rationally emotional, able to emote my rational.

This is a Prime Attainment of a Divine Human Being.

Balancing my mind and my emotions in a physical body unites the triality of body, mind and emotions, which allows the essence of my life to be divine.

All negative thinking is Irrational.

Negative thinking creates irrational behaviour.

Rationalising negative behaviour doesn’t make it rational.

Being rational means rating my conscious choices on a spectrum between most beneficial and most detrimental.

Rational thinkers analyse situations and rate all the available options in preferential order to arrive at a ‘best solution’.

Irrational thinkers default to someone else’s best solution, which is never the best solution for them.

Irrational thinkers choose negative solutions because they are unable to rationalise a situation in a positive way.

Whether a solution is positive or negative is just a matter of perspective and is a subjective view based on the experience of the experiencer.

Being emotional is not irrational, although a rational thinker may believe it to be so.

Rational thinkers may confuse being irrational with being emotional, unless they have a distinction between the two.

We cannot know the true choice and direction of another soul. Deciding for another what is positive or negative, rational behaviour or irrational behaviour,  is always counter-productive.

Other people Being Irrational is just a personal judgment based on a subjective observation of what is occurring, which lacks credibility when the observer is disconnected from their own emotional intelligence.

The Purpose of Relationship is threefold:

1. To meet the emotional needs of both partners in a relationship.

I have a relationship with anyone who meets my needs emotionally. I develop my personality and my character in order to relate better to other people and be more successful in getting my emotional needs met by them. This may be the case whether it is with a marriage partner, a family relative, a friend, a work colleague, or even a family pet.

This is called a Co-dependent Relationship and is ‘being together in separateness’.

2. To enable me to grow and to develop personally in a spiritual way.

On a spiritual path of development and growth, other people are essential as a mirror image of who and where I am on my path. As it is impossible to see the aspects of my own identity that I have chosen to develop, other people are attracted to me as my opportunity to see in them what I wish to change in my Self.

This is called an Interdependent Relationship and is ‘Being Separate in Togetherness’

3. To allow me to share the attributes and attainments of my true identity with others.

By sharing the highest aspects of who I am with another who has attained those attributes, allows us both to experience and to enjoy the exponetial benefits of our mutual development and growth.

This is called an Interdevelopmental Relationship and is ‘Being Together in Togetherness’.

My Psyche is my Soul.

My Psychic ability is determined by my ability to connect with my Soul.

It is my ability to see life through the eyes of my Soul, know with the mind of my Soul, and feel with the heart of my Soul.

Psychic power is the ability of my unconscious or super-conscious mind.

As the Psyche or Soul exists beyond the limitations of time & space, its powers transcend both. It exists in and is able to access a multi-dimensional reality.

From the perspective of my physical form, I appear to have an individual soul. This is my individual perspective of life.

From the perspective of absolute reality, in which my soul exists, I am at oneness with all creation and all realities.

From the perspective of my Self, there is my one self and many individual souls.

From the perspective of my Soul, there is but one Soul and many individual aspects of its Self in physical form.

From this perspective, one who is psychic can easily connect to the individual reality of each individual Self.

An effortless life requires Simplicity.

A life of simplicity has contentment, fulfilment and joy.

A simple life is not an easy life.

It is not easy living an effortless life in a world of paradox and dual reality.

An effortless life requires a deep connection to my power and my authority.

It requires the power and the authority to hear the messages and to see the signs that allow direction and clarity to be present.

With direction and clarity, simplicity is present, and I am able to follow my path effortlessly.

Attaining direction, clarity and presence is not easy.

It requires the attainment of my intuitive senses of seeing, feeling and knowing.

When I see the potential of my contentment, know the force of my fulfilment, and feel the magnitude of my joy, I am experiencing life effortlessly and life simply has simplicity.

A difficult life is hard and complicated, seldom easy, and never effortless.

Simplicity is simple but not easy, and not hard, it is effortlessness in action.

Simplicity flows from my Source.

With & Without are confused with within & without and inside and out.

Belief in an external God is the belief in a god that is outside of one’s self. It is a belief in a god that is without that creates a reality of being without God. With an external god, I am without God and seperate and disconnected from God.

Belief in an Inner God is the belief in a God that is inside of one’s self. It is a god that is within, rather than without. A belief that God is within me. With an internal god, I am outside of God and separate and disconnected from God.

It is not God that is within me but the potential to be Divine (my Soul) that is with me.

Within & without; inside & outside;  internal & external ; inner & outer; are all dualities of the same experience.

God exists beyond the world of dual reality.

The question is not: “Is God within or without”?

The question is:

“Am I connected to my Divinity or separate from it”?

“Is it within my potential to be Divine or not”?

“Am I with God or without God“?

Reverence is the feeling of holding someone in high esteem.

Disdain is the feeling of holding someone in low esteem.

Holding someone in either high or low esteem requires a judgement of their apparent ability or status, which is a subjective perspective.

Status without ability is not a true measure of esteem, even though it is possible to treat a person of high status with reverence or disdain.

The true measure of esteem is the ability that comes with the confidence of one’s true authority and the self worth of one’s true power.

When I am connected to my true power and my true authority with the esteem of my true ability, it is impossible for me to be perceived with disdain by either myself or others.

Ministers are ordained into the christian religion as a Reverend. When a title is imposed by status rather than attainment, it cannot express true esteem or reverence.

Reverence is a state of being not a description of how well I am doing the role in life that I am playing and have been appointed to.

My disdain is a response to the apparent false reverence that I am experiencing in my Self, or others are reflecting to me.

With True Reverence their can be no disdain.

True Reverence is full of Awe, whereas as disdain is the experience of something that is awful.