"The Inner Coach"

Self-confidence is knowing that we have the authority to make our own choices in life.

It is the authority to confide in our Self, and to know our own truth.

It is knowing what we want and making the right choice for our self so that we allow what we want to manifest in our life.

False self-confidence is operating under the authority of some one else’s power.

A false authority is our fate not our destiny. It tells us what and how we should, ought to, must, and have to manange our life.

People appear to lack confidence when they don’t know what to do or how to do what they believe that they should be doing.

The solution for low self confidence is never to show others what to do and how to do it. This is arrogance and is what causes low self confidence in others.

The more we arrogantly try to tell people what to do and how to do it, the more we disconnect them from their true self-confidence, which comes from following their own authority.

When we guide and support another to connect to their own authority and to make their own choices in life, their self-confidence starts to grow.

We can only develop self-confidence once we are no longer dependent on the need to confide in other people to make our decisions for us.

Self-esteem is the ability to live life to its full potential.

It is the measure of how highly we regard our life with esteem, which is relative to our ability to fulfill our potential in life.

False self esteem is the vanity of status and position in our society.

Appearing physically attractive; being acknowledged by others; our breeding and relationships; how much we earn; where we live; the car we drive; and the job we do; all serve to raise our status and position in the pecking order and hierarchy of our society.

We suffer low self-esteem when uncomfortable in the presence of others of higher status, greater wealth, more importance at work, or esteemed by society for their celebrity status and exceptional achievement.

The solution to low self esteem is not the pursuit of fame, money and acknowledgement from ones peers as this will just appease our vanity and theirs.

The more vainly we pursue self-esteem from our perceived status in life, the more we pursue it in vain.

True Self-esteem is how we see our Self, once we attain the authority and attributes of our true power.

Self-worth is the power to feel the positive Joy of who we really are.

It is the magnitude of our positive emotion that we feel and emanate out to others in a way that allows them to value us as worthy and having worth.

The magnitude of our self-worth is the value of our state of being, to us and to others. When we become insensitively detached from our feelings, we are unable to sense our power and value our worth, and we develop a need for approval from others in order to feel worthy.

False self-worth is measured by how much money we have. It is the value of our bank account and our material assets that are used to see how much we are worth.

Money is falsely believed to give us power, when all it does is give us power over other people who believe that they need money. People without money are valued by their ability to work and make money for people with money.

The pursuit of money becomes a pursuit of power over others, in order to maintain and expand our falsely presumed wealth.

All the money in the world does not make someone valued, worthy and emotionally wealthy. The richest people in the world often become miserly and reclusive.

True self-worth is the measure of our state of being, which cannot be purchased with money. We can buy safety and security, comfort and fleeting pleasure, but none of these will attain the state of Being in pure Joy.

Our self-worth increases as we feel the positive excitement of our highest emotions.