"The Inner Coach"

Life Coaching for Personal Development & Spiritual Growth

Browsing Posts published in January, 2011

Anger is an Unmet Need. Anger is an intense need for emotional energy. It is an emotional energy void that needs to be filled. It is the ego’s inability to meet the required demand for emotional energy due to what is currently occurring. When I need more emotional energy than I currently have available, I start [...]

Miracles and logic appear to be polar opposites but they are not. The opposite of a miracle is an everyday ordinary event. Natural everyday events are considered rational and follow the known laws of science. Miracles are classed as unnatural or supernatural events but they can still be logical even though they are not rational. [...]

Problem-Solving

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Problem-Solving is an acknowledgement that the universe sends me problems to solve. When I believe that the universe sends me problems to solve then I will see whatever occurs in my life as problematical. I can view everything that occurs in my life as a problem if I so choose. I can look at problems as [...]

Solving other people’s problems is neither beneficial for them nor beneficial for myself in the long term. Solving other people’s problems: Disempowers them Focuses on their problems Pulls you into the drama Intensifies the problem Always results in their problem returning Never satisfies them Takes our mind away from our own problems Takes us out [...]

A New Path

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Life (my Soul) is always presenting my Self with a New Path. A new path is always present, although I may have to ‘open a door’ to see it clearly. Trapped within the boundaries of my own reality (or someone else’s), new pathways are not obvious. Inundated with the problems and the chaos of modern [...]

Life is an Opportunity to live. It can also be a problem to solve; a lesson to learn; or a disaster to survive. Whether I see life as an opportunity to survive; an opportunity to solve life’s problems; or an opportunity to learn life’s lessons is down to my own personal perspective of life. My [...]

Motive & Purpose

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Motive and Purpose are not the same thing. I am motivated to achieve my motives. I am empowered to fulfil my purpose. My motives have an agenda. My purpose has an intention. My motives are designed to meet my emotional needs. My purpose aligns me with my true values. My motive for doing anything is [...]

Autonomy is being self-directed. Mastery is getting better at what I do. Purpose is my reason for being here. With autonomy, I have attained the authority of making my own choices. With purpose, I have the power to fulfil those choices. With mastery, I have the ability to expand and grow from my choices. Autonomy, Mastery [...]

Appreciation means growth. As I grow, I appreciate and I appreciate my Self. My Soul appreciates my Self because it is through the endeavours of my Self that my Soul appreciates and grows. As my Self grows my Soul appreciates. As I grow, I appreciate my Self and I appreciate my Soul. As I appreciate [...]

God & Sex

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God is the unity of two Souls. Sex is the unity of two bodies, two selfs. When god is spiritual and sex is physical, they become a duality of sex &  love. Love is seen as the personificatiion of God and sex is seen as the personification of Man, the beast. The confusion between sex [...]