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When my ego Self is aligned with the influence of my Soul, it becomes Empowered & Inspired. When I allow the emotional power of my Soul to influence my Self, I am inspired and empowered. I am only inspired by other people’s power, not their authority or choice. I am only inspired by other people, [...]
Browsing Posts published in October, 2009
Inspired & Empowered
October 31, 2009
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Influence & Control
October 30, 2009
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When I have no distinction between influence and control, then influence is just a subtle way of controlling someone else. I influence and control another when they accept my authority and my choice as their own. When I deprive someone else of their own authority, I also deprive them of their power. When I have a distinction [...]
Serendipity
October 29, 2009
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Serendipity is the effect by which one accidently discovers good fortune. Serendipity is therefore seen as a lucky accident. Serendipity is not a miracle. People who believe in luck and accidents, do not believe in miracles. A miracle is a supernatural occurrence that cannot be explained in a logical or rational way. Serendipity by definition [...]
A Recipient of Life
October 28, 2009
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A Recipient of Life is in a state of being that is able to receive Life. A Recipient of Life: Receives all opportunities that are presented in Life. Accepts whatever turns up in Life. Allows Life to present itself as a gift. Knows that being Accepting & Allowing are the ‘recipe’ for an expansive Life. [...]
The Role of the Guide
October 27, 2009
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The Role of the Guide is neither: A master nor a slave A teacher nor a pupil A parent nor a child A leader nor a follower An employer nor an employee A Guide does not teach, train, instruct, direct, lead, protect,consult, mentor or advise. A Guide: Supports others on their own path Hears the [...]
Guiding & Supporting
October 26, 2009
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Guiding & Supporting is the role of a Coach. I guide others to follow their own path, to connect with their own authority, and to make their own choices with confidence. I support others with the power to step out of their comfort zone, to get their own emotional needs met, and to become the [...]
Sharing my Life
October 25, 2009
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When I share my life with another, it is a joy. When I share my life with another, it is an expression of how fulfilled my life is. Unless I am content with my life, I would not choose to share it with another. Why would I choose to share my displeasure, my unfulfilment or [...]
Speaking with Authority
October 24, 2009
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When I talk to others about my life’s experiences, I talk with the authority of my ego self. My ego self talks with pride and confidence on matters of which it is able and qualified. My ego needs the recognition and acknowledgement of an appreciative audience to maintain my self-confidence. Without the praise, applause and [...]
Talking & Speaking
October 23, 2009
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When I talk ‘about’ someone else, I am just gossiping. When I talk ‘to’ someone else, I am telling them about my experiences, my beliefs, my convictions and my opinions of life and I need them to listen to me. When I speak ‘with’ someone, I am having a conversation with someone who hears me. When I listen to [...]
Equability
October 22, 2009
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Equability is the ability to know that “We are all Equal”. Equability: Is without either superiority or inferiority Has no victims and no villains Has no greed and no need to please Has no arrogance and no humbleness Has no pride and no humility Has no selfishness and no unselfishness Has no competitiveness and no [...]
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