"The Inner Coach"

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Browsing Posts published in November, 2008

Goodness

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Jesus said “None is Good but the Lord”. Goodness is having the wisdom to know what our Soul wants for our Self. What our Soul wants for our Self is always Good. The Goodness of the Soul has no duality of bad. Bad and good are a subjective view by the ego self. Goodness is a [...]

Pro-active means taking action to produce an end result. Reactive means tolerating a result or effect and making the best of it. We react to a negative outcome. When we can no longer tolerate the outcome, it becomes intolerable and we instinctively react. Being pro-active requires us to have a clear intention of what we [...]

We Attract with our Heart. We promote with our head. Our super-conscious Soul communicates through our heart, from the core of our Being. Our sub-conscious Id communicates from our programmed memory. When we choose from our ego, we will encounter resistance from our Id. When we choose from our heart, we will be inspired and [...]

Being Better

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Wellness is the reason for getting better. As we get better we become well. Self-development is the process of becoming better and attaining Wellness. There is no limit to attainining Wellness or how better we can become. We do not need to be ill to get better. We can already be well and still develop [...]

The spectator is one who watches the participator. The spectator and the participator are a duality and a human drama. We have a choice as to whether we participate in life or whether we become a spectator and watch others participate in life. Participants take part in the action, whereas spectators only watch. Participating or spectating is the [...]

Sub-Serviant

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The role of the ego self is to subjectively serve the Soul. The ego self is the ‘subject’ of physical life. The ego self is the subject of the Soul’s objective for this life-time. The Soul objectively serves the Self by observing at all moments in time. The Self subjectively serves the Soul by subjecting [...]

Lust & Love

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Lust is wanting and desiring the physical benefits and pleasures of life. Lust is the male energy of desire. Love, that is opposed to lust, is emotionally needing (as in: I would love to have) the emotional benefits or passions of life. Love is the female energy of passion. The greater our desire for physical [...]

Ego

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Our Ego is our individual, exclusive and unique sense of Self. Our ego is who we believe our Self to be. Our ego is that which the conscious mind perceives to be its Self. Our ego is made up of our character and our personality. Our personality is determined by our emotional needs. Our character [...]

Contentment

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Contentment is having everything that we want. Contentment is having enough. Contentment is being satisfied with what we have. Contentment is being without nothing and having no aspect of scarcity or lack. Scarcity or lack creates wanting, waiting and discontentment. When we are ‘counting the days’, we are deciding how long we will have to [...]

Instinct

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Our Primary Instinct is the basic sub-conscious programming with which we are born, and is there to keep us alive. Our primary instinct is to meet our need to survive death and to continue in life. Our secondary instinct is to meet our need to be safe, secure and comfortable. Our secondary instinct is made up [...]