"The Inner Coach"

Life Coaching for Personal Development & Spiritual Growth

Browsing Posts published in September, 2008

Order & Chaos

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We create order in our life to avoid our problems becoming chaotic. We believe that an orderly life is problem free because a chaotic life is full of problems. Chaos is an accumulation of too many unresolved problems. Order does not solve problems, it systemises them. When our life follows the same order, we create the same [...]

Being Fulfilled

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Being Fulfilled Is: Knowing my Vision. Living ‘On Purpose’. Experiencing my ‘True Values’. Knowing who I am. Knowing why I am here. Living without problems. Accepting my challenges. Allowing my opportunities. The Omniscience of all Knowing. Our Destiny, and our Destiny is to fulfill our Destiny. Making wise choices. Unlimited Self-Confidence. Being filled full of [...]

Excessive means ‘too much’. Excessive behaviour is seen as an obsession. Compulsive means ‘to have to’. Obsessive, Compulsive behaviour is due to having too many ‘have tos’. Have-tos, musts, ought-tos, and shoulds, are all programmes that we have been taught to do, that are not our personal conscious choice, and are therefore without our own authority.  Compulsory [...]

Fate & Destiny

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Fate and Destiny are not the same thing. They are not a singularity. Fate and destiny are not opposing forces. They are not a duality. Fate and Doom are a duality of fortune and misfortune, that are the result of luck or chance. The Triality or 3rd Way out of the duality of fate & doom [...]

Meekness

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Meek people are followers of another’s authority. Religion nurtures meek followers who follow the word of the Lord of their Religion. Meek people are disconnected from their own exclusive path and are following the inclusive path of another. Meek people do not get angry because they never resist the path that their ego has chosen. [...]

Wrath

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Our Wrath is our ‘Word’ (our Wrote). Our Word is the attention or focus that we apply to a thought. Our Wrath is the emotion on which we transmit our thoughts, words and actions. When our thoughts, words and deeds are the will of the ego self, we experience the ‘wrath of Man’. The wrath of [...]

A problem is a negative occurence that needs to be solved. A problem is seen to be bad because it is something that we do not want. A challenge may be either a positive or a negative situation, depending on whether we succeed in the challenge or not. A challenge may be viewed as good or [...]

Loving & Liking

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We love (need) someone who gives us emotional power (positive energy). We fear someone who takes away (drains) our emotional power. We like (are like) someone who shares and endorses our authority (positive choices). We hate someone who takes away or deprives us of our authority and choice. We love (need) someone of the opposite gender [...]

Feelings & Emotions

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Our Soul is Pure Feeling. Our Self experiences emotions. Our Soul’s Feelings are Pure Love. Pure Love is what our Soul Feels for our Self. Pure Love is the sum of all our emotional states of Being. When we receive Feelings from our Soul, we interpret them through our thoughts, as emotions. Feelings have no [...]

Connected

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Connected means ‘in communication with’. When we connect to our Inner Coach, we are in communication with our Soul. To connect we require our own Space. To connect we require our own Time. To connect we require our own Reality. Meditation is how we connect to our own Space-Time-Reality. When we connect, we hear the [...]