"The Inner Coach"

Life Coaching for Personal Development & Spiritual Growth

Browsing Posts published in December, 2007

Vanity & Appeasement

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Vanity is seeing one’s self as being perfect. Appeasement is tolerating one’s self as being imperfect. Vanity is the need for false self-esteem based on the belief that perfect, good looking people are lovable and imperfect or ugly people are unloved. When we learn to love our self, we are learning to appease all the imperfections that [...]

Angry & Mad

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Anger is a violent reaction to loosing our emotional power or believing that our emotional power is under threat and about to be taken from us. Anger is driven by an unconcious belief that our power is derived from what we need emotionally. Once we know that our power comes from being who we really [...]

Spiritual development is the personal growth of the Soul. Spiritual growth is the personal development of the Self. Personal spiritual development and growth is the journey of the Soul and the Self to becoming One. The journey of the Self is through the relative physical world of dual reality. The journey of the Soul is to [...]

Stance

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Our stance is where we stand. Subsistence is standing where we get our physical and emotional needs met by someone else. Existence is standing in the physical, material world. Insistence is standing in the way of the Inner Coach’s support and guidance. Instance is standing in the present moment of now. Resistance is standing by [...]

“To Be or not to Be” that is the question. To Be or to Do, that is our choice. Our Inner Coach is continuously bringing us the opportunities to be who we have chosen to be. Whatever we choose to do is of benefit to the Self in this physical world. It is of no [...]

Relative & Absolute

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Our Self resides in the realm of the Relative. Our Soul resides in the realm of the Absolute. Our Soul has absolute choice but in the realm of the absolute there is no potential to experience, explore and discover different realities because everything is Oneness. The Soul can only know itself through its Self that [...]

Power Sharing

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Our ability to share our power with another is limited by the love that we have for our self and the love our partner has for their self. Our partner may have ‘all the love in the world’ to share with us, yet how much we can share with them is limited by how much [...]

“God is a Jealous God” means that God (our Soul) needs to be needed by us (our Self). Once we know that we need our Soul, we understand the purpose of our Soul, and we get that the purpose of our Self is to follow the vision of our Soul. The Soul needs the Self to [...]

Jealousy

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Jealousy is the feeling of not being needed. When we need to be needed, we feel not needed, unwanted and abandoned, which is jealousy. The greater our need to be needed, the more intense is our jealousy concerning the person who appears not to need us or want us. When our partner needs to be [...]

Trust & Faith

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Trust is our belief that other people will act and respond in the way that we want them to. We trust other people when they consistently act in a way that pleases us. When other people trust us to do what they want us to do, we are pleasing their arrogance, which is greed. Arrogant [...]