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The Meaning of Life

February 15, 2012 No comments

The Meaning of Life is to live in balance & equilibrium.

The freedom of equal balance is the mean in life.

Freely balancing my life gives it meaning.

When life has no meaning, I am out of balance.

When I am out of balance, life loses its meaning.

When I live on purpose, it has meaning & balance.

When I mean to live in balance, life has a reason and is reasonable.

With equilibrium, I experience the flow, the gap, and the now of life.

I am meant to flow effortlessly through life in the gap of now between my past & future experiences.

In the present moment my meaning of life presents itself as a gift for my self.

In the presence of life, I have meaning, purpose & a reason for my life.

Without a reasonable purpose, my life has no meaning.

My purpose for life is my reason to experience the meaning of life.

 

 

The Purpose of Reality

February 14, 2012 No comments

The Purpose of Reality is to allow the realisation of my purpose.

I cannot realise my purpose until I realise that I have a purpose.

Realising my purpose makes it real.

Making my purpose real requires reality.

Real purpose is in alignment with my purpose for reality.

My purpose for reality is to experience being, doing & having.

I have a purpose when I am purposefully doing what I need to do as the expression of my purpose.

When I know my purpose, I express my purpose by living my life on purpose.

The purpose of reality is to create my ideal life.

The purpose of life is to experience my ideal life and make it my reality.

The reality of life is that it has a purpose.

Life has a purpose, reality has a purpose and my real life has a purpose, which is ideal.

My purpose is to live the reality of my life with meaning.

I have the means to live my ideal life on purpose.

 

 

 

Duty of Care

February 13, 2012 No comments

When my duty is to care and caring is a duty then a Duty of Care is a toleration to be endured.

It is something that I have to do and I tolerate doing it.

When duty & care are a toleration they are not an act of love.

Carers are paid to perform an act of caring which becomes their duty.

Relatives are expected to do their duty whether they care or not.

Caring for another out of duty is not a loving act.

Caring for another as a profession involves a duty of care that is not necessarily an act of love.

True love is care-free & unconditional.

A duty is a condition placed upon a dutiful person.

Needing to fulfil a duty is a need not an act conveyed with true love.

I am under no obligation to care or to do my duty.

Unconditional love is an acceptable gift, never a duty nor a toleration.

Whether I am giving a gift of unconditional love or dutifully doing whatever I need to do, is always a matter of my own perspective.

 

 

Lust & Love

February 12, 2012 No comments

Lust is the need to have whatever I desire.

Love is the value of getting what I need & desire.

Lust is the selfish care that I have for my Self.

Love is the unselfish care that I have for another.

I care for myself when I am getting what I need emotionally.

I care for others by meeting their needs for my emotional energy.

I love it and I value someone who cares for me and meets my emotional needs.

I hate it when my needs are unmet and I am driven to lust after whatever I desire with a passion.

I lust after life when it has no apparent value and my needs are unmet.

I love life when all my emotional needs are met.

I love my lust for life when I am doing what I truly value.

Caring for my Self may be seen as a selfish lust or truly selfish unconditional love for my Self.

Caring for others may be seen as an unselfish need or a truly selfish unconditional love for others.

True Love is an unconditional adjective state of being.

It is neither the subjective love that is lust nor the objective love that is the need to care for another’s needs emotionally.

 

The Rule of Promotion

February 11, 2012 No comments

The Rule of Promotion states that: “Some things are more equal than others”.

The things that are less equal than others are perceived to be bad when I believe that being more equal is good for me.

Promotion is the art of making something appear good.

The more something appears to be good, the easier it is to promote it.

Whatever I want and whatever I like, I deem to be good.

I promote whatever I like and I deem to be good for me.

Promotion is a subjective view of an individual perspective.

Individual perspectives are potentially equal, yet equally different.

It is the difference of perspective that determines whether a thing is good or bad and should be promoted or not.

Individual perspective never sees both good & bad equally, preferring to have a preference.

Without a preference, nothing would ever be promoted.

As a rule, promotion disallows the equanimity, equability and equality of natural Attraction.

Scales of Justice

February 10, 2012 No comments

The Scales of Justice balance right & wrong.

The need for justice assumes that the balance between right & wrong is wrong.

It assumes that the balance of wrong needs to be made right.

Man’s attempt to balance the wrong’s of Man with right are called justice.

When everything in the world is seen to be right, justice will be seen to be done, yet the scales will not be in balance.

Right & wrong are a duality that creates a need for justice.

We believe that it is the injustice of wrong action that needs just action to make it right.

The scales of justice come into balance when the duality of right & wrong comes into balance.

Overcoming the duality of right & wrong allows true justice to exist in our reality.

True justice is present in the Law of Attraction.

The Law of Attraction is the natural process of bringing everything back into balance.

By order of the Golden Rule, whatever I do to unto others will be done unto me, irrespective of whether I perceive it to be right or wrong.

 

Completion

February 9, 2012 No comments

Completion is the end of a relationship.

A relationship is complete when both partners are able to journey in different directions without resistance.

When both partners have fulfilled their purpose for meeting, the relationship is complete.

A partnership cannot be complete until each partner has fulfilled their purpose for the relationship.

A broken relationship is incomplete.

Just because two people do not get on and cannot be together doesn’t make their relationship complete.

A complete relationship has to be of benefit to both parties.

Whether I have a good relationship or not with another, I still have an incomplete relationship.

When a relationship is complete, it allows each partner to meet again at any time without any emotional attachment to the past or future.

There is in actuality no reason to meet once a relationship is complete because the absence of focus on anything eliminates it from our future reality.

The only reason to meet is to confirm the completion of a relationship.

 

Closure

February 8, 2012 No comments

Closure is the end of a quest.

It is when one door closes and another opens.

It is the fulfilment of an opportunity that allows a new opportunity to appear.

I have closure when:

  • I sever my attachment to a person or an object
  • I no longer need whatever that I believed that I needed
  • I no longer need to follow the path that I have been following
  • I have come to the end of a particular road
  • My belief no longer convicts me of a situation
  • There is no resistance to my progress
  • A new opportunity presents itself approvingly

Closure requires an open mind and an open heart.

It requires the non-attachment of a powerful heart with the detachment of an authorised mind.

Closure occurs when I no longer believe that I need to be living a particular drama in my life.

When my role is accomplished and the final act has been expressed then the curtain will close to the applause of all concerned.

Closure occurs when I am ready, willing and able to move my life on.

Opposing the Darkness

February 7, 2012 No comments

Opposing the Darkness will never make me Light, just less dark.

Fighting the Darkness does not create Light, it just exposes the darkness.

It exposes the darkness within my Self.

The darkness of my shadow Self is the only darkness that exists within my reality.

The only darkness that exists within my reality is the darkness that I, my Self, have created.

My true identity is pure Light.

It is the shadow of my personality & character that allows my darkness to be.

In the shadow of my personality & my character hides my true identity.

It is the darkness of my personality & character to which I am opposed.

Only when I learn to love & accept my darkness, will I allow my Light to shine in.

Only my Light can illuminate my Life and cast no shadow.

Without a shadow self, there is no darkness in which to hide.

 

 

GO

February 6, 2012 No comments

GO is an acronym for Growth Opportunity.

The universe is perpetually on the go.

It is a contextual field of infinite possibilities that are opportunities for growth.

Time is eternal, space is infinite and reality is continuously changing.

The change that I experience in life is always an opportunity for growth.

Where I am going is on my journey through life.

My journey and my life are ongoing.

They are one continuing growth opportunity.

‘Go ahead’ is the authority of my inner guidance system communicating to my Self.

I always have the authority and go ahead to lead my own life and author my own book of life.

I can decide to go or I can decide to stop.

My Soul always gives me a green light for GO.

It is my sub-conscious fears and limiting beliefs that show me a red light.

 

 

 

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